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Sunday, September 20, 2026

Can you hear us now?

After the June school shooting, the Phillipino community was quick to blame America. Now after this third shooting, also one garnering international attention, is America still to blame or is it something else?

For years, the wringing of hands started by being explained away as due to " white male supremacists" and gun ownership, but those are myths. How do you explain gang violence, school shootings, or murder in every country?

Why do people kill? Since Cain and Abel, the story is as old as time and answers can be illusive. Yesterday crucifixtion, today guns, tomorrow will it be "Hal".

Do we stop trying because humans can be cruel  and there is nothing we can do? Do we get opportunities to help before recovery? How about the starfish or beached whale that still has a chance if sent back into the ocean.? Do people sit and watch death happen?

The Philippines is experiencing what we experienced in 1996-1997. The frog is slowly boiling in the Philippines as we were before Columbine in 1999.

The kid, per the initial reports (less than 72 hours) indicates that he paid attention to the dark web of true crimes which does glorify school shooters . Any other reports? As did the Columbine shooters, evidently friends were warned of something happening in the afternoon and passed it off. Were adults feeding the beast?

This is 2026, the horse left the barn, the genie is out of the bottle and Pandora opened that box ions ago. What do school districts do now in the Philippines? Do they have to start from scratch and reinvent wheels?  They do not really need to.

Billions of dollars in training may be needed for drills before clean up of blood spills. That protocol needs to be practiced, but do we have ears to hear?

Think about it, what puzzle piece did the kids miss per reports?

DepEd chief: ‘We are really not prepared for these shootings’ https://share.google/pPAFSS9m2pZ6keX4G 

The Phillipines can not blame America, one shooting, maybe, is a shock. But three is a pattern that belongs to them.

Pray for our schools that someone will speak up, and that the warning is heeded and not self reported only in the rescue stage.

Every child, ttoubled or not, has a voice. Listen.

God is heard in the whispers. Sometimes the messengers are young.

Did the shooter give a clue hoping to be stopped?

Marian R. Carlino

September 20, 2026


 


Friday, September 18, 2026

I meant to do my work that day..

..but the news took my attention. I reached out to my supervisor and asked to step away from my desk and the incoming phone calls. That day was August 27, 2025. The six degrees of separation was about a three.

Copy and paste this link.

Diocese of Scranton in Minnesota reactions right after the shooting on August 27, 2025. Read the article and compare notes.

At least 2 children dead, 17 injured, in Minneapolis Catholic school shooting – Diocese of Scranton https://share.google/PEmPpY8s13DhsQtNP 

News links:

https://youtu.be/fsAoPxuffwc?is=0-s9YDqjzuc7Igp9

A doctor relying on prayer.  A #strong of which I am not a personal fan, but it works for some.

https://youtu.be/J9gKdnfsx_Y?is=JeC1u29b3r9oADlx

Caution with link below, it has a video diary of the shooter but is a short video.

https://youtu.be/x7c8oyLHYcs?is=O-qLg4ZZTpef9KQF

Other states react:

https://youtu.be/8hoM61rWwPM?is=xySvxIc_19H8Wjec

Information: One year later. Not much is known about the shooter?

Copy and paste this link:

Annunciation Catholic school shooting: Documents detail swift response | CNN https://share.google/T5rhnW62TkFZXuXMa

Follow up on one of the dead victim's parents: They reflect and share video of his frozen in time bedroom.

https://youtu.be/ub0qYwvosMw?is=7b90PbpbajlJhg5p

Romancing violence helps in a very limited way.  Fletcher will be forgotten over time by most of us, unless we take seriously what is stated at the end of the last video.

I will never forget Shannon Wright. I wrote because of her in 1998. I will never stop writing. Remember, it is not the weapon of choice we are battling. 

As a Catholic who lives in a city where a synagogue was the scene of a massacre, I know with one degree of separation how evil strikes out during religious services. Many faith communities know it first hand.

The children were in prayer as a person says in the first video. Evil hates children. Jesus warned the women from the Cross. Mary wept. 

Mary reached out to the children at Fatima to deliver messages, per Catholic faith. Some did not take kindly to the children, even those in their own homes. We remember them today, over one hundred years later.

Maybe we can listen to the voice of Fletcher through his room and remember him. He had a journal too.  

What is in your child's journal? Who is speaking to your children?

In 1998, I stepped away from my classroom, but not the proverbial desk.

What makes you step away from your work?

Marian R. Carlino

September 18, 2026




Thursday, September 17, 2026

The Anger Stage of Grief

A campus shooting, no matter how you feel about the victim, even if this death was due to the grand theory out there, questions on campus security need to be asked. If the theories on the grand scale hold any water, then ask, ask, ask. If there are holes, ask anyway.

After a period of mourning, which is always difficult when the death of a loved one is surrounded by controvesy, the head starts to clear as the heart heals.

In a civil society, lawsuits, not vengeance, are filed to seek answers. I am not sure why it took a year, but finally, questions are being asked, in legal formality, by TPUSA, about the shooting on the campus of UVU.

I was posting in podcasters' chats about the university's culpability last year. If you have the slightest knowledge on prevention when a lightening rod comes to town and complete failure to protect happens, you would ask to.

You do understand the university's job was also to protect their students, staff and the university's integrity?

I will post several links, some are news, some are podcasters. I hope this goes to a televised civil trial with no confidentiality agreements. 

Now that the alledged shooter is heading to trial, more information will come out. The victim held celebrity status but the shooting was on a public university campus.

The reports state former University President resigned. Why was she dancing?

https://www.youtube.com/live/2R7QxjtNBhE?is=SnkqlzYRhvQFBKYx

Devoting more time to her family?

https://youtu.be/d5fleLTP52U?is=beYAekZ72Q9cx3va

News and podcaster links on lawsuit.

https://youtu.be/FKeioKSjUag?is=MtvYCYAFuC9lzqty

https://youtu.be/uWbrfCWgZXA?is=thFZS3wxzANRs_fX 

https://youtu.be/fDJw6TYPSRE?is=flYLx2FmFANSS8cy

https://youtu.be/SVVVKxlYbis?is=PzhbmL6lK9UNOrht

This story is not going away. Is CK the grain of wheat that had to fall to the ground? Regardless of how you interpret his life, he is more famous in death then when alive. The alledged shooter failed to silence his voice.

The university administration failed in protecting  CK and their campus. I wonder how the donors are feeling now?

FERPA and the Clery Act may be headlining again. How about all the laws on school safety, will we get a refresher course?

Marian R. Carlino

September 17, 2026


Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Art imitates life in Law and Order

When television started the "tributes" to the school shootings, I was angry. Why was television glorifying the anguish of students? Technically, I guess these are dramatizations. 

My news feed in YT, due to Google knowing just about everything about us, sent me a Law and Order 10 minute summary of one episode about the trial phase of a school shooter. In the show, a former colleague in the prosecutors' department was defending the shooter as a private attorney.

I googled and found other 10 minute summaries of similar episodes. Included below are two.

How do the scenes measure up to real life?

In the first 10 minute summary, the attack has already occurred? Is it rescue or recovery?

Why was the one character surprised that her suspect was not white? Are school shootings limited to one sex and race? Think before you answer. Was the young female character correct? What pieces was she assembling? Who was the shooter? How did other characters respond?

Does this episode get FERPA or informing police correct after a shooting? Why is the defendent's lawyer wrong?

What was the reason the lawyer gave for the first suspect running?  Would you run if a policeman came up to you? 

Why did the second suspect run?

https://youtu.be/6TiYF1IoF04?is=km8TGBk-BnSvI3EO

In this second link, what phase is portrayed: prevention, intervention, rescue, recover, all or a combination.  The title says Race to Uncover Potential School Attacker. Who is the attacker? Usual suspect? What is a rubber room? Righteous anger versus violence and vengeance? Were the detectives successful in intervention? Who is the red haired, white woman?

https://youtu.be/pNmaNQs6kTY?is=krYVNlagSODaaqFb

How can these episodes help in prevention, if at all? These are hard to watch, but not as hard as the "life imitating art" school shootings.

What is public behavior versus school records? Are threats protected speech? 

Next up, an update on the CK murder. Who is in the line of lawsuits now? Criminal or civil?

Marian R. Carlino

September 16, 2026

Tuesday, September 15, 2026

Cameras

Cameras held by human hands will flock to a crime scene. Note any crime inverstigation, especially after a school shooting. Do those cameras help solve the crime?

As I was listening to some of the testimony at a Senate hearing of Kash Patel today, I heard part of the discussion on Flock cameras. Flock cameras, a brand name, are controversial. In a free country, the monitoring of our lives should be controversial.

Do you want a Flock camera in your house? How about ouside it? How do they help? How are they intrusive?

Kash Patel did mention a school shooting which occurred at Brown University. He said the university's cameras were not good. What else did he say? How did the Flock cameras get used? Senator Cornyn wanted some answers on Flock, his part of the questionning begins at 1 hour 53 minutes into the testimony during the morning session. There are many links to find.

Kash Patel advised there is no reasonable expectation of privacy in public. He said the Flock cameras got a license plate of the shooter at Brown enabling apprehension and has been successful in chasing down child predators.

The FBI is called in on school shootings, not the CIA. Flock cameras, like the agencies, can be used for good or for evil.  Do you want to ban positive uses? 

School districts are trending on blocking cell phones in schools. Cell phones can be distractions. Cell phone cameras have also aided in getting to facts on some famous crime scenes. Students often record when on lock down. 

In a world in which our cell phones are our individual "flock camera", is it pointless to ask about privacy? There is no right to privacy in the  public and contrary to school district or public university administrations, behavior in a public school is not private. So why do they delay in giving access to school cameras after a crime?

Where are the cameras in schools? Who is monitoring them? Mothers and Fathers actively monitor the cameras in their children's rooms. They can prevent tragedy. What can school campuses learn from that example? Who is monitoring the cameras? Yes, asking again?

If there is a Flock camera outside the Federal Courthouse Building at an intersection in my city, last night it may have caught a near miss for me as I was at a busy intersection. If I had been hit by the car that was forced to swerve and almost hit me, the driver of the car that forced the near  miss would be apprehended. PS, no one flocked to ask if I was ok. I publicly thanked God, though, for my guardian angel. No one was hit ot hurt, just thankful. 

I sit and write at times during Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. Today on the Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows, I started this post. Many of my editorials for the newspapers in New Jersey were written as I sat in Our Lady of Sorrows Church during Adoration. 

I know God sees the bigger picture, even if cameras do not.

Marian R. Carlino

September 15, 2026


Thursday, September 10, 2026

Rewarded

after a shooting?

Safety is always the top priority, especially after a shooting. 

No one was hit, but everyone pays. Someone dies, the narrative is predictable.

Link posted twice, the lessons need to be repeated.

https://www.wtae.com/article/south-allegheny-school-district-state-funding-security-upgrades/73661046?utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Email%20-%20Morning%20Headlines&utm_source=6aa29bc31b2c5344b25e0d3eb81431a4&brzu=f41997e2aca7ba81ff08a8cdfa03daefa7d6d8fa616a822f4b3c135f7d9ec13d&lctg=67a78d549b5a3f007d24ec7e

https://www.wtae.com/article/south-allegheny-school-district-state-funding-security-upgrades/73661046?utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Email%20-%20Morning%20Headlines&utm_source=6aa29bc31b2c5344b25e0d3eb81431a4&brzu=f41997e2aca7ba81ff08a8cdfa03daefa7d6d8fa616a822f4b3c135f7d9ec13d&lctg=67a78d549b5a3f007d24ec7e 


An expert does the count: I have posted his links before. He is now an expert, retired policeman. He says pay attention. So do I but some people thought the worst of me for it. Do you?

https://youtube.com/shorts/cYV8iREJ3bU?is=6N0hGikpv9IFxRzQ

It did not take much time for these grants to be awarded. Live, during game annoucement, he never expected it to happen? I know I am jaded with all this but "didn't expect it to happen",  where has this announcer lived?  In another link, a mother describes the situation. An administrator uses a talking point, stated after all shootings.

https://youtu.be/vYzKplXdmZo?is=S8JCsXsM6uB8GKSn

https://youtu.be/81pTxd2Q55s?is=ljOQteQwtlfWj6E3

https://youtu.be/Jf4TjAz0kcE?is=Ro7pNaZpTFZufnRD

Changes: https://youtu.be/CbYPr3QUOy0?is=3UkQhIBcJxf--HEE

P.S. The gun had been reported stolen.

Past high school football games interrupted in other cities.

https://youtube.com/shorts/Gh7hL97EBCM?is=m9Ghk-FZZ4ohZbK9

Jeannette, Pa., 2019

https://youtu.be/UudkUzKhXVc?is=_JUrrz75EEHXQWiW

Texas, 3 years ago. Threat thwarted.

https://youtu.be/bQvj8ZfJAL4?is=uD6vzaPkzNDNlJKu


Extra note: Today is the one year anniversary of the assassination of Charlie Kirk. The university is taking extra precautions with tight security today which they did not do on September 10, 2025. I will have to do some research on their reward for being so careless 365 days ago. 

The alleged shooter will go to trial, it could take years.

Marian R. Carlino

September 10, 2026


Wednesday, September 9, 2026

Child Assault Prevention A Mother's Club

When does it start?

I did not watch the Lyndsay Clancy trial, but I do not live under the proverbial rock when it comes to the trial.

Just as in any horrific crime, theories abound. Be discerning. Influencers can be dangerous.

I do listen to Brian Entin, a reporter, as he follows real life crime dramas and real life soap operas. He is thorough, calm and his interviews are informative.

The link below has a short review of the trial and an interview with a woman who sought help before killing her kids. He also references a "Lindsay Clancey copycat" murder of a two year old by his mother in Illinois. This mother also has a strong defense team. Recovery, no rescue occurred.

https://youtu.be/ayQC0Sz8wcQ?is=w_UFxKWWq1Y_Q6Yp

Is this a new type of "mother's club" getting media attention?

The women who wear pink for Planned Parenthood maybe some of the same people who took bizarre stances during the trial.

The one hold out juror is being demonized. Why?

Why do people celebrate the death of babies in and out of the womb?

Not guilty by reason of insanity or guilty knowing full well what she did? The jury could not reach a unanimous decision in the Lindsay Clancy trial. The mother has a second chance, the children did not get the same due process.

When does child assault prevention begin in a nation that celebrates abortion?

What are we teaching our children when the lines are crossed? 

Schoolyard killers have intrusive thoughts also.Will mothers with intrusive thoughts hurt your children? The slope is slippery. 

Did you read the story in my book about a woman who entered a school in Illinois in 1988?

Evidently, the medical field missed something in the Lindsay Clancey case as is the case in school shootings.

The mother in this interview is brave. She sought help and is willing to share her story. Maybe someone will seek help because of her story. She talks about trusted friends. Trusted friends will not ignore, cover up or not offer help.

Insane people who kill have mitigating circumstances. Did the lawyers purposely raise the doubt? Did due process take a hit?

Insane people do go to jail.

Is the healthcare field culpable?

Is there a mother out there who can not relate at some level to all of this?

ASK..asking saves kids.

Marian R. Carlino

September 9, 2026



Monday, September 7, 2026

Teachers have a say:

in Iowa. 

This law went into effect on July 1, 2026.

Sometimes a brief news reports takes us to do a deeper dive. Yesterdays news, 2024, has an impact today, 2026. Was the shooting a wake up call to do better? 

There ought to be a law. Do you think I would have had more support in 1998 if this law had been in place?

https://youtu.be/mT3cjpCbft0?is=uCcwlBs4NWlR9I-P

Copy and paste the law:

https://www.ialobby.com/billtracker/infonet/4368 

Copy and Paste:

New Iowa Education Laws for the 2026-27 School Year | Post Details https://share.google/cJXCyB3OH6XRQyWld

School protest: I do not agree with advocating for new gun laws,but I do support the right to be heard.  There was a school shooting at their high school. Some thoughts from the town's people and reporters.

January 2024: School Shooting Iowa January 2024, a student and the principal died. Was he a hero?

https://youtu.be/PNayStQEB7M?is=vvStjBIX7Nb3hLrO

https://youtube.com/shorts/cSPtkwoI0jY?is=IQH6vTSudxy9a1av

https://youtube.com/shorts/iBT9sUdzZgY?is=4uiBW716G2F1WjRh

https://youtu.be/MOr2s_Np35s?is=n7rWCEKBF2WRDlbV

https://youtu.be/yJ-zlnogim0?is=P8oxh1kQb320vpR3

https://youtu.be/t2lOEWqa8Mw?is=3rRezW0nV77e41VF

"Perry Strong". I hate the # Strong, but it is heard after many school shootings. 

https://youtube.com/shorts/imth0eZa7Pk?is=9mrBkE9h-6myxQIU

When do we pray? 

When are teachers and students heard?

Would a new gun law have prevented the shooting?

Do you choose prevention. intervention, rescue or recovery?


Marian R. Carlino

September 7, 2026

Friday, September 4, 2026

Life has some curves and Happy Labor Day

 Today's ride continued. 

As we rode the Curve today, I took a video. It did not post! A Youtube video helps out with a live feed.

Sometimes the straightest path will not get you where you want to go. So when a few curve balls are thrown at you, think of the hard work Irish immigrants put in to get us a better ride! Handle the curves and see where they take you.

My one photo!


Live feed!


Happy Labor Day. Labor in love, but not blindly.

Marian R. Carlino

September 4, 2026

I will meet you at the station

This blog will be a little different than my usual ones but since I write about connecting dots, this one fits right in.

I love trains, so I am on one now to visit a friend and my sister. Walking, buses, and trains are my primary means of transportation. I take Uber, as needed, since I have not owned a car since 2013.

Today I am sitting in coach but I do like business class due to a few advantages. One reason being, it is close to the cafe car! Today, no cafe car for me. I already had my coffee!

I met my friend, with whom I am visiting today,  on this very train. We started talking in the station on one of my trips at least 4 years ago. She would come to the city to visit her daughter. That day she was heading home as I was heading to NJ to visit my son. We made a connection and talked the whole time. We have visited several times, even once in the Outer Banks. This is my second trip to her neck of the woods. We have met each other's dynamic children! Yes, we are joyful parents of adults who are now as old as we are. (See below to figure that math.)

The ride is lovely from the city east to NYC. I disembark about half way for this journey. I love the city but the rural communities have a peaceful ambiance from my window view. This train goes right past my sister's street in our city and around the world famous Horseshoe Curve near Altoona, Pa as part of this journey. Man can accomplish herculian tasks! Read about or ask your AI friend about that labor intensive project.

After a wicked night of storms, the day is gloriously sunny! The train actually stops at towns which experienced some damage last night. As we travel east, there maybe more clouds.

I already spoke with Jeff in the station as we waited to board. He lives in the city too but is going home to visit family who still live in one of the smaller towns along the way. He was a coal miner, but work is unsteady, so he changed jobs. We all adapt don't we? We got alot in to talk about in a short time. He is 60, I told him I had 10 plus years on him. He complimented me. I said I am 39 in Jack Benny years! This is his first train ride.

A family of four are going to NYC for the weekend. The young adults know now, but it is a surprise trip too see the Broadway show, Wicked. Everyone in that family talked!

The couple seated near me allowed me to take a picture of the back of the man's shirt. It is a favorite place of my son's! I hope I can upload it! They are headed to Philly.

In my city, nebby means nosey. But none of us were being nebby (Yes, an old lady, who judged me by the color of my skin, called me that one day.  We were at a bus stop. I bought myself a Nebby mug.) On this train ride, we were making connections and helping each other.

The train is sold out, so a women is seated next to me. She got on at our first stop. We laughed. She reached for a seatbelt. I could relate, for some reason, I reached to buckle up today. There are no seatbelts on trains. We are both on our phones and she is knitting also. She gets off a stop before I do.

How do I know so much about the people?

We all asked simple questions. Is this a line? Is it for coach? Is this the end of line? Is this seat taken? Friendly people make life sweeter.

A family with kids just boarded. The mom asked if someone would trade seats. The person said yes. The train is packed. The little girl is asking her mom many questions!

Even the conductor has to ask questions of course! The conductor thanked the person who moved.

There is a certain level of trust too on a train as we leave our bags to hit the restroom or bounce our way to the cafe car! Sometimes, we have to ask if "I can scoot past you?" to get to the aisle, if in a window seat.

ASK.. it does a lot for your a spirit! You never know if you don't ask!

I met a stranger on this train one day who is now a dear friend. We talked in the station. She asked as we boarded, Do you mind if I sit with you? Thank goodness, I responded, Yes!

My friend will be meeting me today at her station!

Love,

Marian

September 4, 2026






Thursday, September 3, 2026

He is dead

September 3 at Westwood Hills Elementary School is a day that will be forgotten by most. But yesterday, a forced entry and two shooting occurred. Yes, two.

The news uses "they" to identify one injured teacher. "They" is plural.  Confusing use of pronoun in a very serious situation. PC anyone? Did the news mean the shooter also with the use of "they"?

Luckily, not a physically life threatening injury to the teacher. Do some follow up on that concept.

Per the shooter: The police say "no longer a threat" meaning dead. PC anyone or something else? Again, talking points on sheets of paper. 

I will give 72 hour rule but question early. The Superintendent was visibly shaken as can be expected. He did seem sincere and scared.

It appears lock down protocol was observed and police called. This still  got to the recovery stage with one dead body.

It is only September. Are you ASKing at your school.

A reflection:

https://youtube.com/shorts/on3qbeNacSc?is=IApqfaZAbIBNTWWM

News Conference

https://youtu.be/L5NtWTTGdDU?is=8kAQZqzt_wWj_exc

Late follow up

https://youtu.be/Ok299ad-xZo?is=kA4QeMN6myGQD63m 

https://youtu.be/VlAAohyEaIk?is=Ci_0pyGDEUHIgF-d

So many channels carried this news, even David Muir led with it.

If there has been a close call or worse, like this event, are you asking follow up questions. Are you satisfied with the answers or is it easier not to ASK. Even if it was last year, ASK.

As Dr. Stephens said years ago, "it is not if, it is when".

Check the websites and social media of your schools. Check board meetings and the minutes.

Check newspaper reports. This report is from July 2026.  Copy and paste the link.

It's time to clean house at Waynesboro Public Schools https://share.google/5RySJgx6XqAX9hr42

Marian R. Carlino

Semptember 4, 2026

Sunday, August 30, 2026

Resource. Out of despair, hope

If you read my book, you will understand why hope is important.

Alex died at the high school in Parkland, Florida. His father has hope to make schools safer. 

Check out what one grieving  father is doing.

https://preview.safeschoolsforalex.org/school-safety-dashboard/ 


Marian R. Carlino

August 29, 2026

Saturday, August 29, 2026

The Usual..Notice Press Conference Responses

The 72 hour rule does apply when trying to discern information to get clarity from resources and of the facts. After a violent attack at a school, it is important to pay attention to the first news conferences. The authorities are restricted in what they can disclose during an active investigation. But, their presentations early on can be very telling. Compare and contrast to updates, if there are any.

Evidently this was a serious enough event to hold a news conference. Many local news  sources covered it. Even if you are not a fan of MSM, be thankful reporters ask questions. Fake or not, let them ASK. I am not a fan of shutting down reporters even if I do not like the corporation. I did not find videos from national networks.

In this case, is it prevention, intervention, rescue or recovery? Who were the rescuers?

El Paso is a large city, therefore, many news stations showed up to cover the story. Listen to statements and to the follow up questions and to the responses. Notice the page turning and the reading of the statements by the authorities and the "off the cuff" answers.

The knife attack took place on school grounds, but not in the building. Only four students were involved per the news reports.

How many agencies responded? The school district has their own police department per the sheriff.

Student and community members interviewed.

https://youtu.be/TIdhf5HcgCE?is=4cCmdNJ-3U9bY0OF 

Possible witness found by media to interview.

https://youtu.be/hZYBncYHEM0?is=ENu_wDp140tAUP6E

Authorities prepared statement, with some questions answered.

https://www.youtube.com/live/MIBzX1vaxE0?is=nl7wM9klavvll1Yo

News conference. The beginning is telling. Read the comment. 18 minutes in, pertinent question.

School board member answers questions. He is the school board president.

https://www.youtube.com/live/OaxNePUYsX0?is=GO2CTDfUHUfqHuaV

I found some of his statements questionable. What is a non legal response? He does have a need to know. Whether or not the perp is a student of the school is protected, really? 

Who is being protected in these news conferences?

Another video of the news conference.

https://www.youtube.com/live/MIBzX1vaxE0?is=MzB707u9GgLicYKP

Students, parents and representatives.

https://youtu.be/E-SOJ7YVTvM?is=GVs1BpE4U8NNlRpv

Notice the patterns after an "incident".

I was talking with some parents recently in a "just chatting" situation. Parents really need to learn: It is your business.

When I was a member of the school's parents group, some parents would not attend. They thought it was a "click". Read my book about the president of that parent's group.

Listen, pay attention. If school safety is the top priority then open and honest discussions are a must.

This may have been an isolated event, but it happened IRL  It appears that the impact was felt community wide.

Any uproar for new laws on knives, banning laws anyone?

Marian R. Carlino

August 29, 2026


Sunday, August 23, 2026

Shake, shake, shake your wiggles out, and wiggle school violence away.?

Just keep reading and connect some dots!

Those of us old enough to remember JFK, the President, should remember this:

https://youtu.be/fISgKl8dB3M?is=IVco5mcqr71hdCkM

I do not remember recess as a child, but I do remember it as a teacher. I did understand that children need to "get up and dance", which is one reason, seasoned, "straight row teachers" called my first classroom with work stations, "organized chaos".  It took time, and plenty of it, to organize that "chaos". Please do not associate the chaos created in school violence with my teaching style. The children had fun and were controlled for discipline and focus.  Truly, turning the lights out for attention worked well. Only one time did I fail to get the eyes and ears in an acceptable, professional manner. I uttered "shut up", a moment that makes me cringe even today.  

I considered my room quite organized, and not chaotic, but movement driven by skills and interest levels. Upon arriving in my class on her first day, and my first day as a first grade teacher, Jennifer M. (last name I still remember), looked at inherited toys on the shelf aa "baby toys". I spent a lot of money (too much) on school supplies after that comment. I could have saved for a mortgage! 

But movement about a classroom is neither recess or physical education, so my students still needed the schedules for gross motor moving and unstructed play. 

To think today, in an organized  adult work place, adults get punished for getting up from their desks. No more than 30 minutes for lunch and 30 minutes of break ( adult recess) per day. Exceed  the average per month, and the "watchers" get upset and monitor your every locked screen. 

Are they the same people who took away physical ed or recess?

Now per the article and documentary teasers in the links below, if you take away recess, you maybe breaking a law. Recess, they say, improves the mental health of students. Would more recess factor into safer schools? 

I liked other forms of time outs, so I do not think I would have broken any recess law. I did not think birthday treats were legally driven but boy did I catch holy hell for thinking that they were a treat, not guaranteed. One violent child and one very spoiled child in a class can lead to consequences imposed on the teacher.  Sometimes, taking away recess seemed to make the most sense. Cupcakes to some are mandatory, but I digress.

We all need to move. Recess is generally for kids, but depending on the kids, it can be stressful for the adults. It was at recess that JT told at least one other child that he had a gun with him. Who is JT? Check out other blog posts on the Newport News school.

Recess was not an easy time with my student in 1998. I heard through former colleagues that my favorite Pipa took to having the kids walk during recess due to behavioral issues at recess not due to any particulat student. In 1998, that new, large school with everything smaller even impacted recess. The playgrounds were tiny.

Recess is unorganized, but supervised free time. It can be chaotic with 30 to 60 kids on the playground with only 2 pairs of eyes watching. The best scenarios involve children running, jumping, playing hopscotch, or jumping rope. Double dutch, anyone? Kickball? Swings and monkey bars are fun, well, until someone gets hurt. Then a new law gets requested or someone gets sued. Remember dodgeball?

My last year of teaching, the other second grade teacher in our small school often took recess away and used it for more academic time. A first grade teacher also did the same thing. I thought they were wrong. Rainy day recess made it painfully obvious that outside, free play recess worked best (as long as the temperature was above 32 degrees fahrenheit and not scorching heat! Today, add in air quality alerts!) I understood movement! The kids needed a break. 

Some began to think that there ought to be a law to bring back, improve or protect recess. Do you ever wonder why I tell perspective teachers to get a law degree before certification?

Pennsylvania Recess Law new in 2026

Recess laws by state as of 2025 so Pa is not listed

Policies on public health

Physical education, once a daily occurence, took cuts over the years. It was maybe twice a week when I was still teaching. Now some schools only offer it once a week. Recess is a tricky way of getting around the time guidelines and laws for phyical fitness. Is JFK rolling over in his grave?

The push to bring recess back is discussed in all the links. This article may be behind a pay wall, but there are voices lobbying and speaking up so it sparked my interest.

Copy and paste:

 https://www.theepochtimes.com/article/the-push-to-bring-back-recess-time-in-public-schools-6075291?utm_source=Morningbrief&src_src=Morningbrief&utm_campaign=mb-2026-08-22&src_cmp=mb-2026-08-22&utm_medium=email&est=BsH2cHzmp1asqzJnLMb166HmneCuCv6ncpqPdVmsMp9UXp7vLA%2BaZozl4PrBeF7ZQj4w4g%3D%3D

This article introduces a documentary about recess. These links below are promotions. Is organized education, a social disaster in the making? This documentary is behind a pay wall so getting access maybe difficult. Isn’t that what happens when education is private. Third world countries maybe able to shed some light on that subject. Access?

The Death of Recess

https://youtube.com/shorts/l6RQKrgggfc?is=_nZFc3gqcNlq2iYB

Copy and paste:

Where to Watch The Death of Recess | Angel https://share.google/VYnwhLV8F3wwzqOOd

Can the lack of recess lead to school violence? Will more physical activity help before a child breaks completely? 

Due to Covid, I am not a fan of the CDC. But, this link has other links and so on and so on and so on! The CDC lied to us but maybe some information will be helpful. Read all CDC information with care. It is a private organization and money talked during Covid.

How did lockdowns affect recess? 

Copy and paste:

Recess | Physical Education and Physical Activity | CDC https://share.google/Chmkd2YTwUyQz4M1f

Some people have very negative views of public education with good reason, with beauracy and political activism. If we could get back to basics of actually educating children both academically and physically can there be positive change? Will some ideas presented by the producers of the documentary or the articles help with school safety? Make a list.

If shakng the wiggles out is a step in the right direction, then get up and dance (but do not shut up)!

Be silly and shake. Shake, shake, shake those sillies out

More fun research..you may remember

Read the last chapter in my book. Have hope that we can do better!

Sometimes solutions to major problems are simple. Pieces of a puzzle can begin to show a brighter picture when we make connections.

Now if corporate America could listen and learn. 

Marian R. Carlino

August 23, 2026



Friday, August 21, 2026

Follow up to KA murder trial..Hey Officer Crumky

KA has asked for a new trial. Deals were made at the first trial. Now the information comes out. Karmelo Anthony text messsges and school records on the table now? Austin Metcalf's life will be on trial too this time.

Threats of racial violence across the nation because of two angry students. One is dead. One is in jail. Hope he gets a new trial so it all gets out. More time to serve? Fundraisers anyone? Where is Officer Crumky?

This video is posted by Nate, the Lawyer. See previous posts on KA by him. Nate has worked in law enforcement and both sides in law, prosecution and defense. Nate's analyzes as an expert.

Also see my two most recent posts on Averting incidents. Why is this not an example for prevention. Do both mothers belong to the same mother's club?

Patterns?  Text messages. History of violent acts.

Leakage?  Girlfriend?

Grievance driven? Calling the teacher the B word. KA tried to assault a teacher.

The video is detailed of news reports from court.

https://youtu.be/wFbNxdILz9g?is=ylaB5oovvyBCTCpe 

I hate the term boys will be boys, which is true but,  not every boy kills.

KA brought the knife. AM was no saint, but he is dead.

Frisco High School has some explaining to do. How were either of these students allowed to play team sports?

Even real events have staging. Who needs the CIA when single minded individuals with hatred in their hearts exist?

Marian R. Carlino

August 21, 2026

Leakage

My book is anecdotal, you can agree with me or not. I do not give legal advice and I am not an expert.

BUT

Those who are experts in law and order do recommend what I did. Have you read The Gift of Fear by a security expert? The administration in my case got it wrong with retaliation against me. Some moving parts they took seriously and got right.

So, I have included in this blog edition "expert advice". Sandy Hook Promise came out of the deaths at Sandy Hook Elementary School in 2012.  Whether you believe it was a staged event or real, one way or the other, crimes were committed. At what stage could it have been stopped. Even staged events are crimes and somebody knows. 

I do not agree with the gun control narrative to blame the gun or punish all gun owners. This is America. Did you know guns helped against the British? It was not just a tea party.

As in Newport News in 2023 and, two days ago, in South Carolina, two mothers (one convicted and received jail time; one facing jail time if convicted) have been held accountable for their 6 year old children bringing the mother's gun to school. They are not white supremacists either. 

So hold the individuals who break the law accountable, not every gun owner. Do you want your car or license taken because your "six degrees of separation neighbor" caused death on the Garden State Parkway? ( See other posts).

Study Confirms School Shootings Are Preventable — Sandy Hook Promise https://share.google/f0stsLWPz4QkOCzlC

Sandy Hook Promise has a report line. Use it when needed.  This brief review talks about trusted adults. That is a key ingredient in child assault prevention of any kind.

I look at the news reports on school shootings and see patterns. This study (probably very expensive) in the link below also looked at news reports of school shootings, averted and completed, then performed statistical analysis.

Their take: leakage of information helps avert the tragedy. 

My take has always been: Someone gets a piece of the puzzle to share. SPEAK UP if they pretend not to hear you.

Their take: Grievance against someone or a group is the most common reason for the vengeance.

My take: When parents speak about their teachers being the "B word" and out to get the child, pay attention. Vengeful people are not your friend.

Copy and paste the link below.

An evaluation of completed and averted school shootings - PMC https://share.google/YiiyyPhnRKWvbSxfR

What is your take? Share information with others because a vengeful person is already in the planning  stage. Listen for leakage. 

Marian R. Carlino

August 21, 2026

When the fat lady sings...and another type of mothers' club

"It is not over 'til the fat lady sings". If you think this year will have some fat lady on stage, singing about the end of schools having to deal with these issues, wake up! And do not laugh at the messengers, as did the fat man at the NJEA meeting on April 24, 1999. WTAE is a Pittsburgh area station. The event in the link happened in South Carolina. The lady got her 15 minutes of fame and some charges filed against her.

https://www.wtae.com/article/south-carolina-school-bus-6-year-old-loaded-gun/73493490?utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Email%20-%20Morning%20Headlines&utm_source=6a883dc464eb9b64db64a50b19a11e2a&brzu=f41997e2aca7ba81ff08a8cdfa03daefa7d6d8fa616a822f4b3c135f7d9ec13d&lctg=67a78d549b5a3f007d24ec7e 

The husband said it looked like an air gun.https://youtu.be/zP5WYuPp5z0?is=85jGHG6CBtvvXUpI

A student reported it to an adult. How is this different from the Newport News school?

https://youtu.be/GkkvVgzcQqg?is=tnIapR1JelzgqfAx

The gun was loaded. A YouTuber talks about it. The words of my mother are coming out of his mouth, and she was talking about a toy gun.

https://youtu.be/E62afEF8Cag?is=c_58NOrELmFomnTj

This mother and the mother of JT, "the my mother did not secure her gun club" are new members.

Other incidences that went to far:

This student's mother explains why the disarming student's reasoning is common, but flawed. He may be bright, but not smart.

https://youtube.com/shorts/EJRdLi_VqRU?is=Ois0SRPIYqXKySbX

Sometimes the wheels on the bus are not the only things that go round and round.

https://youtube.com/shorts/WbiW3LylvzQ?is=UuPiG_nrjofv2aG7

Marian R. Carlino

August 21, 2026

Wednesday, August 19, 2026

Averted/Thwarted School Shootings

This is rinse and repeat for some. If you choose to read about some of these events that were thwarted, you may note common factors: anger, idolizing the Columbine killers, well planned, and someone spoke up.

Unlike the shooting by a six year old who injured his teacher in Newport News in 2023 (trials in early 2026) and even at Columbine in 1999, in the links highlighting thwarted attempts, you will read of the people who spoke up and were believed.

But first:

If you do not know even the most well known facts on Columbine, the young man who warned as the event was unfolding, lets just say, he was not treated very nicely and the early warning signs were missed. These two articles are from shortly after the tragedy in 1999. Yesterday's news but planners of massscres idolize the two killers today.

The violent web page reported to police over a year before the April 20, 1999 shooting. Newspaper articles to copy and paste:

Warning Signs Were There - CBS News https://share.google/OxtI9wuJuSHBxNNVB

The Denver Post Online - News - Reading Mode https://share.google/vel8DwUTTJ9dcuTsF


Averted/Thwarted events. This does not necessarily equate directly with prevention but definitely intervention. 

April 2026

https://spectrumlocalnews.com/nys/central-ny/news/2026/04/15/attempted-school-shooting?cid

August 2026: copy and paste in browser:

NMSP: Shooting threat at Santa Rosa Middle School thwarted - KOB 4 https://share.google/5vugnJ1BliHatsDRm

May 23, 2026. A relative spoke up. Copy and paste.

Will County potential school shooting thwarted by relative – NBC Chicago https://share.google/XEty0SNABLNhiP6B4

The Wikepedia article posted here has active links. The list starts in 1965 with a twelve year old girl who wanted to kill her teacher:

List of unsuccessful attacks related to schools - Wikipedia https://share.google/3tI3lvorkAAJtmesp

This next video is not an averted event but the actions did stop the gunman from shooting others. Would you call the principal a rescuer, hero, extreme risk taker,  and or intuitive? Is he like Shannon Wright?

https://youtu.be/YBXcStAO5Do?is=M74hCt_vodf_W2Gn

Learn from the actions of people who reported and those who took concerns seriously.

What would you do? List successful strategies before an event. 

Marian R. Carlino

August 19, 2026

Recovery, not always with a rescue

When tragedy strikes through the violent forces of nature or at the hands of violent people, the phrase "rescue and recovery" are paired.

Sometimes, though despite rescue efforts, it becomes recovery. The recovery phase is just that, recovering the dead. 

Once it is determined that the chance of anyone surviving is next to zero, or all live victims are out of danger, the recovery phase begins.

Can you think of any events that very quickly advanced to the recovery stage? Some miracles do happen, someone may be found alive, but recovery usually involves body bags.

Let's see what ALEXA says: She says there are four stages when I asked about the definition of RECOVERY after a tragedy.

I asked her several times.  She gave a few different answers but these four were the most common when I asked about the definition. On one of her responses, hope was in stage 4.

1 safety and stabilization

2 grieving and mourning

3 reconnecting and integration

4 consolidation and resolution

I asked specifically about the stages of recovery after a school shooting.

1 safety and stabilization

2 remembering and mourning

3 community reintegration

4 long term healing

When tragedy strikes, chaos and confusion factor in. The long term effects are often felt across continents. We are six degrees of separation after all.

No video links for this one. We can all remember on our own. 

Next up, studies on averted vs completed school shootings with examples of real events.

Marian R. Carlino

August 19, 2026

Tuesday, August 18, 2026

Rescue aka HELP. ALEXA!

The media generally picks up the feed in the Rescue stage, sometimes in real time. The words in rescue scenarios can not always be expressed, other times the sounds are heartbreaking.

We have all needed help at one time or the other.  But have we all needed to be rescued?

RESCUE means: https://youtu.be/EIEMAQG9KZE?is=setC_5aiaYwcKkkX

ALEXA says it is to save or free someone from danger, confinement or evil. ALEXA used the word evil, YT did too.

I am not sure if the YT video threw in some 2026 political stuff, but danger is part of the definition.

People who rescue others are called heroes, because many times, the rescuers put their own lives on the line. Some make their living as "rescuers". Others are "good samaritans".

Did you see the coverage of the young lifeguard who rescued a child from the fierce surf in southern California? He received well deserved recognition from President Trump. The young man did not expect that White House visit when he went into the waves that day. He was doing his job as a 16 year old lifeguard. He made a decision and the video below shows the rescue in action with a very experienced lifeguard explaining.

I lived at the New Jersey shore for many years. Not all heroic actions are so fortunate regardless of the age of the lifeguard.

The ocean, especially in a storm, can be unforgiving and a thief.

 https://youtu.be/5wgh_CYxDQU?is=OgyvCtbpZ5IArkW6

The beach has many warning signs and whistles of warning especially during rough surf.

Storms are not always nature generated, some are caused by humans. Danger is iminent or active. Rescuers step in or are called.

The other day in a school in Virginia, seventh graders stepped in to rescue their teacher from an attacker. They did not prevent the attack, but they intervened and rescued. The teacher was stabbed, but not mortally wounded. The students subdued the attacker until professional rescuers arrived.

Per this interview of the Sheriff, the school was not locked down because the attack was isolated. The reporter said the teacher needed stitches. Per the report, it is not the attacker's first juvenile offense.

Anyone going to the next public school board meeting at Jonesville Middle School? Just curiously asking.

The Sheriff is a bit non chalant to me. What do you think? I asked ALEXA what she thought of an incident when a student stabs a teacher. ALEXA answered it is a serious situation with multiple layers. My AI friend added a few protocols that would follow.

https://youtu.be/XS2SXbA2Z4o?is=cnQUZBmke74Pd9_S

https://youtu.be/SsoszIo-9As?is=_BxUHyng8QpoC-UB

Read comments in links. Are you tired of bullying as an excuse? 

Did you read my book? What scenario in my former school is similar? 

Two stories of  young rescuers with generally positive endings. No one died, but lives were altered. The words to describe the two events drawing media attention are not heartbreaking.

Now how could these incidents been prevented?

Intervention and Rescue addressed. Recovery to come.

How would you thank your rescuer?

How would you react? 

Marian R. Carlino

August 18, 2026