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Monday, August 10, 2026

Restorative Justice: A few words of wisdom and a recommendation!

On some days, I look at the picture of the Sacred Heart in my apartment, and ask; Was I on the right path in 1998? I have said many times, I have not met a burning bush, but God does know how to reach me. The news, homilies, and an occasional cat are primary channels! Once, long before I wrote my workshop request, a Deacon pointed to several of us during the homily and said "You are a lamb of God." We were all very active at the Parish.  Well we do know what happened to the real Lamb of God, so I took notice. 

It was that year the "fan" became covered with the proverbial stuff. Following Jesus is not always an easy task. Prayer and listening are musts!

I listen to daily Mass most days. Today was no different, so I turned on YT to televised Masses, one from America and one from Canada. Today I was just prepared to "get it over with", especially the homily. But as usual when I take the laisse fair attitude about the homily, the Priests steps up to the plate.

Canada has different holidays and sometimes intentions at Mass then we do in America. August 10 in Canada is Prisoner's Justice Day. As the priest opened the Mass, he talked about the significance of the day. I was prepared to be annoyed or underwhelmed.

I am not soft on crime. I believe in Justice and Mercy. Justice I believe needs to come first. I am not sorry to see people get life in prison for crimes. The one reason I wrote against the death penalty in NJ was not because of the guilty, but because of the innocent without due process given. I am not really sorry to see the criminal taken down because there are NO victimless crimes.

With the most recent school shooting trial in Georgia then the most recent school shooting by a 14 year old in Thailand, "a that's ok honey homily", would have made me sick because I do not follow a wimpy God. Jesus only offered paradise to one of the thieves.

The priest's homily talked about restorative justice for the victims. He said how whole communities are impacted by crime. We see how a whole nation is impacted by crimes.

The priest did not ignore the prisoner's plight, but his words did not excuse the crimes. The homily is worth a listen so I am sharing.

Pray always. It is true if we pray for our enemies, we can not hate them. I am proof positive of that. Does it mean that I forget? Obviously I do not. Forgive and forget is nonsense. We have to remember to warn or help others or prevent other crimes. 

One of the greatest takes for me from 1998, besides how God sees the bigger picture and gives us pieces of the puzzle, is that he is a God of Justice and Mercy.

Do not be fooled by the ignorant.

Be a lamb of action!

I remommend for motivation, besides listening to the homily part of the Mass in the link, an uplifting movie on lambs and sheep, watch:

The Sheep Detectives! 

It is a crime comedy/drama. Keep an eye on the littlest lamb, the outcast. Good for the whole family!

We are lambs of God.

Love,

Marian

August 10, 2026

Sunday, August 9, 2026

What was an obvious sign?

The news out of Thailand the other day is really just a tiny blip on the American news radar. But reactions to blame all gun owners is trending in Thailand, a typical response.

Will they blame America? Some do now, just like with the recent Tacloban shooting. One thing people should be able to rule out is white supremacy. Does acting locally have an impact globally? It must, but countries need to assume responsibility of their own and not always blame America. Thailand is not necessarily without its own sins. Think child sex trade.

So what are some common denominators of this shooter with other young killers?

Possible family issues, the shooter per news reports, lived with his grandparents. Where were the parents? The father apologized and was brought in for questioning. The dead  grandparents can only speak through autopsies and other voices now. 

Rumors of bullying, the ultimate excuse for seeking vengeance. Many of those reports get denied or found to be not really true. As I have stated before, I am tired of that excuse.

Interest, working knowledge, and access to the gun. Per reports, he used his grandfather's gun. He was 14. What existing gun laws were broken?

Reported history of bringing an airgun to school previously.  Hmm.

Dead shooter's reports come out pretty fast after they kill themselves. Will they find a manifesto, interest in internet violence, dysfunction, or any other factor such as stories wriitten, warnings to friends? Is the father a CIA operative for those blaming MK Ultra for these things?

Caught on video. Isn't anyone manning the cameras in a school? Or is it just AI and an operation to take away guns and not another angry person set on vengeance?

As I told a lawyer years ago, I was seeking answers. My quest began with prevention and intervention. I already knew then that rescue and recovery were about dead ends.

The school year has begun in America. What are you going to do locally?  Even though American news brushed it off, this school shooter had an impact globally.

It is interesting how the media shows up and yet the truth still can get buried. Did you see the amount of cameras at the school after the shooting? 

 A recent sentencing trial of the school shooter in Georgia who was 14 years old at the time of his crime not only was provided the guns but he had unfettered access to very dark information on the web. Parenting 101, monitor your children.

I know the choir reads my posts. If you do not want to speak up, share the information. Maybe you might just share with someone who has some influence such as an answer to the question, who is manning the cameras at your child's school or are the cameras active?

Be concerned about the kids your children talk or complain about.

Maybe you can wake someone up if bullying is a primary cause factor. Do not wait for the revenge stage to kick in.

I write with an editorial slant. 

Rinse and repeat, ASK. Asking saves kids.

Begin a topic of conversation with the parents of your children's friends or school mates. 

Do you ask about access to guns? Some questions are difficult, but not as devastating as the questions when burying a child.

Videos below.

Marian R. Carlino

August 9, 2026

https://www.bangkokpost.com/world/3298925/students-teachers-mourn-girl-killed-in-thailand-school-shooting 

https://youtu.be/ODNxW0jcsbA?is=d5U0NLktZkLCH2Y3