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Monday, July 13, 2026

Should you get your law degree before teaching?

Yes and No!

If teachers were lawyers, billable hours would kill the budget. But teachers, not meant to be lawyers, are ignorant of the law. It can be a trap or, let someone, like the VP at Newport News, ignore some vital aspects of school safety and see how much you should know.

This blog tries to educate using many voices.

My book explains in detail, what I knew and did to protect my class. Read it for educational purposes. If you are  afraid to speak up or lacking faith, also read it for strength. 

I have been posting follow up since I wrote the book because, after watching a few school related trials this year,  I see that ignorance abounds and has been anything but blissful from elementary school to the university level.

If you read my book, you will be able to connect dots to these videos from 2020. How many school shootings since 2020? How many since 1998? I have lost count. Gun control advocates have not. Do you want another law breaker to take more rights away, including the right to be safe on campus. Do you want the educational staff and personnel who care for your kids to use ignorance as an excuse. Ignorance is not a legal defense. 

These links showed up in my feed today. Thanks Google. Think prevention. 

The main link is below:

The individual links about myths are below the first one.

https://www.frontlineeucation.com/blog/top-5-ferpa-hipaa-misconceptions-for-schools/# 

Myths explained; Hmm. Connect dots to my book.

Myth 5: Peer  Grading: 

https://youtu.be/8bwsy4m39mA?is=grOkuQ_6oxVp7aYB

Myth 4: Who can know?

https://youtu.be/I28xWfYw518?is=E5ioyFVQhsHCfwoP 

Right to know. The ADA representative at ACCC years ago needed a refresher course.

Myth 3: Sharing is caring.

https://youtu.be/RHqQUDnU89c?is=ESc4khEgJGyd08AG

Myth 3 factored in for me. I knew I was sharing. 

Myth 2:  Calling the doctor and the doctor said.

https://youtu.be/FfYzIyyfwoI?is=8-SBcf4w50RaRMPP

Myth 1: HIPPA and FERPA

https://youtu.be/ZsB0XNCfMls?is=jbvOtcf1pX2ESE40

https://youtube.com/@frontlineeducation?si=c8nJOd5HpsWp4heN 

From the main website. This is not an endorsement of the company but it does have some ideas when working with IDEA. 

What you do not know can kill you or your child.

As I am writing this, a trial is starting in Georgia on Court TV. A toddler is dead at the hands of a mother.  The mother was a high school teacher at the time of death. A boyfriend factors in. That does happen too. I may post links on that in the near future. From CK to this child, Karter, our schools have an obligation to keep people safe. Who is teaching in our schools and college campuses?  Innocent until proven guilty. 

Trials we know can take years to come to trial. 

https://www.youtube.com/live/J6D1-biZzNY?is=y7MXpKXhHGptQ36i


Ignorance is not bliss. Let us pray, that the lawyers and administrators,not only know the law, but follow it.


Marian R. Carlino

July 13, 2026


Saturday, July 11, 2026

Forgotten Voices and Monday Mornings

I wasn't going to comment on the murder of CK but in a previous post, I opened that door. 

CK was, and still is, a polarizing man. Anyone who speaks publicly on controversial topics is called polarizing. He was willing to discuss and debate/argue. He had/ has an international fan and enemy base. He died on September 10, 2025. The preliminary hearings for probable cause regarding  the murder by the alleged shooter of CK took place this week. My previous post addresses some links to follow. 

My opinion of lawyers has not changed after this week. I still distrust them as a whole. If you listened to just five minutes of the coverage, you may distrust also. Lawyers are part of our bell curve in life. Due process is abused in the hands of some. Remember Jesus' plight with lawyers? I bet CK was quite familiar with the issue.

Both Jesus and CK had a right to live and discuss. Both young men had a Judas. Evidently, both alledged murders expressed remorse. One committed suicide. One has lawyers pleading for life. 

My concerns in this blog site is about prevention. Monday morning has come. There are many voices and theories.

In my opinion, the university royally screwed up. See other post for my comments. Are they on trial anywhere? Does anyone want the authorities at the university with the beautiful campus and CK Memorial now, want a trial? Questions, anyone? ASK..you know the drill. I do know the defense is curious. 

In my YouTube feed today, because Google feeds the YouTube beast based on previous views, this gentleman's channel came through as listed below.

He is a voice for whom I am concerned because he was attending a large event. Was his safety and life even considered by the university before the CK scheduled appearance? Did the vlogger know of the real risks? Evidently, the university, in my opinion, passed on full acknowledgement of the risks.

I am posting a few of  the vlogger's short videos and his longer video in which he reflects on that infamous day. He posted months ago. It is yesterday's news but timely.

The death occurred ten months ago, but guess what, it is in the news all the time. This week the news was on steroids. The next big update on the results of the preliminary hearing is scheduled for September 1, 2026. Due process in the works on "Monday morning". 

While we wait for the results with the Magistrate's decision, pay attention to other voices. TR has his advocates. EK has hers. The witnesses are all less than six degrees of separation. Celebrity status is playing a role.

Do not let the unknown public voices of the witnesses go unnoticed or be forgotten.

Once you watch this witness' videos, you may have similar questions to mine. When are the civil or even criminal trials for some staff at the university?

He posted this on September 11, 2026

https://youtu.be/PcUAwR1dRvU?is=7tk99XsnM1tvPtUM

https://youtu.be/jtVQNCD01QY?is=paIMZn2HI2vs57KQ

Shorts: before, during and after the assassination: 

https://youtube.com/shorts/UBtsXPzFm3I?is=xjZ2UZOB3Y_T8wH7

https://youtube.com/shorts/yXxBXzHyC4o?is=_W0dgrkQk8x2fdxz

https://youtube.com/shorts/rMqfH_eqTKc?is=6vplyNyp21UeFRGt

https://youtube.com/shorts/C-j-d-WiuyE?is=KOwJg6wlsojIZ5wu

https://youtube.com/shorts/O7uXqVg0xy0?is=shljMgSyVmdryJCb

https://youtube.com/shorts/3LP-1O7tE-0?is=xJIsN31LPVdag9mv

https://youtube.com/shorts/J8FVBpc5jCs?is=QXkQp69orBh6bLJ6

https://youtube.com/shorts/V2yyLISW9T0?is=cyXeQjbyFz3V2rvU

The Memorial to CK on campus:

https://youtube.com/shorts/rD3hqnuTi4I?is=BGW-qcsiF3pUXsd0

Ask yourself what you would have done, if,  in charge of a large campus with additional guests when the speaker was both loved and hated.

CK would love the debates that are going on. He probably would verbally throw down some famous voices. 

People still debate Jesus so haters are going to hate. Prevention is worth millions if not billions today. Judas threw back his 30 pieces of silver.

Even if you believe in CIA operatives or shows, someone always has a piece in prevention, starting with the murderer whom, because of free will, could always have made a choice for life. 

Like Pilate, did the university wash their hands from responsibilty. I bet there are lawyers advising.

Marian R. Carlno

July 11, 2026

Tuesday, July 7, 2026

It's 10 o'clock, do you know where your children are? I am not the only one asking.

Pittsburgh has "teen takeovers". Yes, someone did die a few weeks ago. Horses were brought out on the Friday night of the NFL draft. Pittsburgh is wringing its hands. There have been at least three violent takeovers, but a look at Market Square on a regular basis may show less violent occurrences.

The city prepared for downtown, so they went elswhere for July 4th. Two videos.

https://youtu.be/i1e4PBySEic?is=8Ax3kmMKHIdSvscF

https://youtu.be/iY8rUswhZf0?is=ei3wI7jg2D4mLfFH


Rochester, NY is asking do you know where your children are after a violent July 4th evening. Seven shot, well after 10:00 pm. 

Should not all parents be asking where is my kid? ASK...asking saves kids, reputations of parents and cities and taxpayer money. Are you tired of the grieving parent of a "good kid" who gets shot by police or by another kid with a gun? Where was that mother (or father) at 10:00 pm? 

Besides cost to lives, find out how much a take over costs taxpayers. Trials get mighty expensive as we see in trials that draw international attention. Although we try to put a price on a person, what price on a life is worth paying?  God knows if you are having a problem calculating.

Rochester, NY:  Guns and knives.

https://youtu.be/NQ6Cm_uvsJ8?is=lR8-khus8fpdr74I

https://www.youtube.com/live/WM9s2Dvxvmc?is=J3CRny711KzUlqbw

Marian R. Carlino

July 7, 2026

Follow up on school shooting in Tacloban.

As usual, today's breaking news takes the place of yesterday's breaking news. 

The shooting at the high school in Tacloban is no different, but I do try to do some follow up.

I am reading some news stories and watching YouTube videos about the influence of online groups, and simultaneously, reading articles that debunk the theories. Theories always abound when the "unthinkable happens".

There are Senate hearings, in the Phillippines. The videos list July 1 as the hearing date. The police woman (aunt of one of the gunman) testifies in one of these hearings. Her gun was used.

Why the mask? That is ridiculous. Per the policewoman, the gun was secured. The gunman stole it from her home.

https://youtu.be/u2o5OxVxbXw?is=yf_Hqr1NPulvABV1

https://youtu.be/iEJogCq9VUU?is=P6SajvbZgx8ra3Hq

DepEd to repurpose Tacloban school classrooms after shooting | Philippine News Agency https://share.google/6CxTDMR45gKMlkJ6q 

Two weeks ago: This link is in English of the interview by a psychologist. 

https://youtu.be/x7H5xUizTDg?is=AGzJR70kx5dMApYn

Follow up may lead to some clues as to where the failure started.

Marian R. Carlino

July 7, 2026


Monday, July 6, 2026

Charlie Kirk, a shooting on a college campus

Out from under? The Charlie Kirk shooting and death is just a clean cut case? Yes or no.

If you answered no, then the rock is still your roof.

I would not necessarily comment on CK's death but his death had an impact. Regardless of politics or persuasion, this death of a young married man and father, by violent means, is sad, but not shocking. He was a "lightening rod" and spoke regularly at similar settings.

The pundits are making money off CK's death and the many conspiracy theories surrounding it are playing with information. But thank goodness, some great ones have been following the details. Some are adamant about debunking the extreme takes. As with any high profile case, confusion reigns supreme. The details can be devilish. 

The preliminary hearing, Day 1, started today. There is a lot of discussion about the location and a lot of objections by the defense. Every aspect of this morning's hearing, that I heard, reminds me of the number of objections by the defense in the VP, EP trial. They care about one life, not necessarily truth.

Uncivil Law on YouTube is doing the play by play.  I suspect many others are too. Uncivil Law is actually very funny and thorough. 

Of interest to me is the location. Take away any conspiracy theories, and remember college campuses are safe places, next to holiness, right? Watch the video link below.

A college campus invited or allowed this TPUSA leader to their campus. That is not the problem.

The problem to me is a security issue. Parsmount Tactical and some other (smaller) YouTube channels went to investigate the location not long after CK's death. They have done all sorts of research and campus mapping, using drones.

This video below is from three news people who were covering the event. They are primary witnesses, not pundits. The video was done months ago.

 https://youtu.be/Uq0L3xduNro?is=uiY0shSiH90FBs1X

The Interview Room has been covering the court preliminary hearing too. Chris M., a retired police officer, has a take similar to Uncivil Law. 

A security officer, from the university where CK was murdered, testified today  So, campus security must play into the scenario?

Laying foundations for bringing in evidence. The alleged shooter is on trial, not the University. 

I have a question. How did security miss providing top notch security when a known "lightening rod" was coming to speak? What if the shooter hit the wrong target? Would the trial garner international attention? Would CK be able to do something for the safety of the campus had he lived?

Would anyone care? 

This university is another one that has some "splaining" to do. 

Keep watching, even if the defense attorneys tries to talk into infinity. School violence is everyone's business. 

Keep the celebrity status of the dead man and the circus surrounding the shooting, out of the analysis if you can. 

A man died on a college campus. A trial is underway with the prelimlnary hearing underway this week. Day 3 was today as this is an updated blog on July 8, 2026.

The testimony thus far, when the defense stops talking, will debunk some of the conspiracy theories. Keep in mind, whether the alleged shooter acted alone, was MK Ultra and is part of something even more sinister, the shooter had a choice. The evidence points to the choice he clearly made.

I just wonder, with all those locations on campus, showing the defendents movements, why no one in real time was watching those cameras.

ASK..asking saves kids on college campuses.

Maybe, if someone at the university had asked a few questions before the event, the school would not be infamous now.

Pay attention. Due process is important.

It is "Monday morning" in a court in Utah this week.


Marian R. Carlino

July 6, 2026

Updated July 8 with media link.




Tuesday, June 30, 2026

School Nurses Chief Wellness Officers

As I was researching the information on the crash in August 2011, I came upon a short video.

The female interviewed was the nurse at my school in 1998. She was supportive until she was not. Her husband was a school board member but did not participate in my closed door hearing probably because of conflict of interest. Remember, it was bigger than me.

She was also the nurse who was so frustrated with having to cover four schools regularly, that she wrote on our chalkboard "One nurse, 4 schools, you know the drill." That note impacted one of the reasons a parent got mad at me. The school secretary would cover so I did not send a child to the secretary for a dirty ice rag one day.

That mother ended up being one of my best supporters. See my book.

The nurse was part of the problem. But nurses are important. This short interview, listed as 2013, tells two nurses points of view. "she works with babies"?  The female is the nurse I worked with

https://youtu.be/lEVJDxT6r3I?is=k2UPoSSH_Dg159w0

This nurse had to administer serious medical care.

https://www.actionnews5.com/2021/10/02/shelby-county-schools-thanks-nurse-who-sprang-into-action-following-school-shooting/?fbclid=IwdGRzaASwtZpleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAwzNTA2ODU1MzE3MjgAAR4BQRHKlyWQMKtUvWM23xLhUioLceeVzu49qr45foTJPch4chuyhlOOK9vyzg_aem_5tdwCQUY0MbvxnPkhy6-cg

Expanding nurses' influence. This 2021 blogger listed below gives great advice.

https://youtu.be/ifI2pm7hbQ4?is=E4nK2lq84Ui1zmIy

After a school shooting:

The Relentless School Nurse: What Happened at School Today – Aftermath of a School Shooting Through the Eyes of the School Nurse – The Relentless School Nurse https://share.google/bPCeC6JbRBhztafZw

Nurse testifies at the murder trial. The child died, the mother is in trial:

https://youtu.be/tWrQJEaraqo?is=SbRCgkoHZ1od9uOO

Nurse testifies at trial of injuries of a high school student: not a school nurse. 

https://youtu.be/a_yIIST79m8?is=JWoidUk4xaKtP-KT

School nurses have a lot of responsibilities.

https://youtu.be/84DXBZ8D1sw?is=GfOQcjanFu1HAXgd

Open_Cogan-et-al_School-nurses-share-their-voices-trauma-and-solutions.pdf https://share.google/woaPGzLIKQUEnN5li

NASN-Gun-Violence-Article.pdf https://share.google/UNICB85wEmPrTEbW5

FERPA and the school nurse:  They can tell teachers.

https://youtu.be/8oQsqkbBfA4?is=bnOlJpyYeKDGmwaK

Some of these links need to be copied and pasted.

Does your school have a nurse? Do you know the nurse?

Marian R. Carlino

June 30, 2026

Monday, June 29, 2026

Not Stunned by Speed on The GSP

New Jersey students remember classmates killed in car accident | Drazin and Warshaw, P.C. https://share.google/7fJhIORQ1iViZ7yRm (copy and paste link).

The one report about the crash in NJ uses the word, stunned. More on that later.

Who is actually stunned anymore by anything?

The Crash, the Netflix movie, as discussed in the last post, brought back my own memories of angry drivers, driving fast and driving under the influence.

I never believed in driving fast to make up time, nor driving angry. Once I drove when I should not have, due to alcohol consumption. I know a guardian angel was guiding me, or at least steered the car. I learned my lesson that night. I made it back to the dorm never to drive under the influence ever again. I was less drunk than my college roomate who owned the car. Neither one of us were thinking and we are fortunate, even back in 1976, we did not hurt anyone. "Not that" young (21) and stupid even 50 years ago was not a legal excuse for driving drunk.

I also remembered three other incidences in which I was a passenger. All three involved speed. 

Two involved drivers showing off. One was a high school friend (just out of high school), and one was a male chaperone when I was in 9th grade, a CYO event.   I thought if I did not die, that my parents would kill me (in both incidents).

I did not have much control over the chaperone. However, several years after the CYO hayride/joyride from hell,  I mustered up enough strength to tell my high school friend (along with the other two passengers) that I would not drive back home with her, unless someone else drove. I was calling my dad if she didn't agree. We were about 50 miles from home by the beach. He would not have been happy. "Beatle" drove home. It was a much better ride on the Garden State Parkway. Needless, to say, friendships did not last.

I tried to instill in my own kids not to get in cars if they did not trust the driver. I also instilled to be a good driver. Some dangerous behaviors did occur, mostly because of those strict laws on teenagers. But thankfully, no illegal substances or accidents. 

One other time, for me, anger and speed were the mix. I can not stand some situations or people anymore. Most I can avoid direct contact with if the "like" is no longer part of the picture. I was still young and stupid for that 5 hour ride.

Trust in the driver of a car is as important as trust in the person holding a gun or knife. There are laws governing all. 

The accident in 2011, discussed below, did not go to trial because the driver was dead. Any civil suits when the numbness wore off? I am not sure. Any filed may have been hush, hush.

So, when the news broke of an accident in August 2011 impacting the Garden State Parkway and eight students from Mainland Regional High School in Linwood, NJ, I was not stunned. Accidents with teenagers happen.

I was suspicious of the narrative. It seemed too tragic to believe it was just an accident. It was sickening with the spin and romanticizing of an accident connected with a high school sponsored event, hence my concerns. Cover Up?

I had no respect for the long term coach at the time. Let's just say, he and I disagreed on hazing and coaching tactics. So, something began to smell. The kids had just left from the field to go to a traditional breakfast several miles off campus. The driver took a highway, crowded with summer tourists heading to the beaches. If he knew what he was doing, he would not have taken that route.

The hero wordship of the dead kids was nauseating to me. I did feel bad for the four kids who survived the crash and the other students. The four living crash victims knew what happened  ( and in my opinion, could not say anything contrary to the narrative) and other kids had to put up with the "new saints". We all grieve in different ways, but truth is the best cleanser and healer. These posts are half truths. 

https://youtu.be/fLHmjgwPA3A?is=QmFCu7s6e5mgARmw

https://youtu.be/9-wOX5sSwBQ?is=Ja9rcPS-rB9h3NOc

Students mourn Mainland High classmates killed in crash | 6abc Philadelphia | 6abc.com - 6abc Philadelphia https://share.google/HmUozfW4LcABQft9q

The father of the driver wanted to change laws. His kid broke every single law of the NJ motor vehicle department and statutes especially for teen drivers. The father filed lawsuits, but interestingly, not against the school district. Hold your nose, he went after the roadways and the county He wanted future teen drivers to pay the price for his son's decisions.

Laws broken: seatbelts not used, number of kids in car, driving under the influence of marijuana and speed. Wreckful driving? Definitely deadly.

If the driver had lived, he would have been charged. But his parents, like those of The Crash film, would have made excuses based on the hero worship that followed. 

People knew how I felt in 2011. As a member of the community, I did not attend vigils or fundraisers. I openly disagreed with the father about new laws on teenage drivers. I already went through the "parent of teenagers" stage.

In 2012, because the Atlantic City Press filed a request for public records, the public learned a little bit more of the reasons behind the crash.

Hmm, something did smell. It showed up in toxicology reports. The driver was dead and tested positive for pot  Three others tested positive for marijuana. The spin continued. Not sure what the drug test results of the survivors were or who supplied it.  We would know who supplied a gun if it had been a gun that killed them.

The Crash of Netflix infamy or the crash of Mainland Regional High School of 2011:

Would there any difference in public response had the weapon of death been a gun or a knife?

Four dead at a high school is usually called a massacre.

Intentional murder, The Crash, with a gun would be more than 15 years.

Accidents with cars when the driver tests positive and deaths occur, certainly some sort of prosecutorial judgement.

National news reported on the events on the crash in August 2011.

Fatal New Jersey Crash Spotlights Young Drivers Law - CBS Philadelphia https://share.google/llWvt2gOQlJbC7fkX ( copy and paste)

NJ teens killed in crash tested positive for pot | ABC7 Chicago | abc7chicago.com - ABC7 Chicago https://share.google/Ay9JbfZj5y73AeveO

Marijuana Use Probed in 2011 G.S. Parkway Crash That Killed 4 Teens - CBS Philadelphia https://share.google/9EpXMDLOalgATQm6F

Those survivors are adults now, maybe with kids. Do they still romanticize the events? Yesterday's news, sadly can be tomorrows' headlines. School violence with a car. 

Marian R. Carlino

June 29, 2026



 

Stunned

But not shocked nor surprised. Although, sometimes I live under a rock when it comes to trending movies.

The Lawyer You Know YouTube channel brought my attention to a violent event that did not involve a gun or knife. A movie/documentary airs on Netflix. It is not at a school setting, but I will get there in connections.

I watched, at least 12 years ago, a documentary series on Jeffrey Epstein so I am not sure what is so stunning about the information coming out now about him.

Justice for Sister Cathy was another one from the past (murdered in 1970) also aired on Netflix about a dozen years ago. No stunners there on sexual assaults and deaths in the Catholic Church. One exception for me, one of the former priests who knew Cathy very well, was a minister in a Methodist Church near where I used to live in southern New Jersey. I knew them by name. As a practicing Catholic, the perps nor the lawyers make me feel any sort of loyalty. But Jesus had cons around him too. He just called them out and could destroy their souls.

Both documentaries left the viewer questionning. My daughter brought these to my attention. But these two movies are only side bars. And Netflix is not the only one discussing them.

The current trending movie is about a car crash. At first, everyone thought the crash was accidental due to young driving, the authorities soon found evidence that pointed to, not so fast. Two young men died, one not so nice girlfriend now is in prison. 

A lot of discussion, not alot of jail time. How much jail time if the driver shot the dead while they stood against a wall, instead of driving a car, with all three of them in it, into a wall? What if she used a knife? Would the jail time be longer?

It is not a brand new event but the Netflix retelling is trending.

Links listed below:

This was not school related but you will see, in my next posts, where I am going with this.

https://youtu.be/zAzCdfYTp5U?is=utOqSXmQtOmbAfh-

https://www.youtube.com/live/n3CXwp9sIzY?is=jMjPlb0f0LqpFEHe

https://youtu.be/ZVdbXUOZiI8?is=xTCyjenBHvgQ9ac1.   Nate the Lawyer also discusses the case.

The sister of one of the dead passengers is interviewed. She wants the story told but also another law?

https://www.youtube.com/live/P2yNyJgUWaQ?is=3oOVxojHRIf7EgI4

We already need licenses to drive and there are many laws. Speed, anger, deadly intent do not mix, what other laws are needed? 

Just wait for the next post, because "there ought to be a law" is not only chanted about guns. 

Marian R. Carlino

June 29, 2026

Saturday, June 27, 2026

Teenaged Angst Sometimes a Jury or Judge has to decide

I recently watched an episode of Freaks and Geeks. It was frustrating to watch this long ago ( and maybe forgotten) comedy/drama, aka soap opera, work through the story lines. It was a popular series when my children were younger. 

What the actors show, as irritating as it is, is that teenagers make bad decisions and parents and teachers can be clueless and ineffective. Some of the actors have become famous, one rather infamous. This all white cast performed behaviors demonstrating some intelligence, a little wisdom, bullying, mean girls, hormones off the rails, criminal behavior, docile mother, some good parenting moments due to listening and availibility, promiscuity, violent parenting, and some reconciliation or remorse. Conflict was the theme, friends who make wrong decisions and lying.

If you have been a parent, teacher or  a teenager at any time, or currently serving in those roles, watch one episode. If it doesn't cause some sort of visceral reaction, then, well, you are Clueless (of which mean girls are stars.) Laughter is visceral, but I did not laugh.

Even Hallmark has teenage angst. Most characters do not visbibly drive recklessly, egg houses or show someone beating friends and enemies, school yard extortion, or death.  Girls can be mean though, maybe not as well acted as in Freaks and Geeks. 

Does Hallmark Murders and Mysteries show any school violence story lines? 

Teenage angst on the screen is one thing, in real life it can be deadly. In Freak and Geeks one episode is as angsty as the next but no body died of anything but embarassment in the episode.

Since I deal with school violence discussions, I try to write related to school aged issues. Although quite frankly, I absolutely understand how adults in schools can make deadly decisions. Sometimes their deadly decisions are because of what they have done, others,because, of what they have failed to do.

I post links to podcaster commentaries.

The KA trial is currently trending on the social media sites. Everyone has an opinion, even long after juries have rendered verdicts. Some opinions are based in fact, some spin cloth.

A lot of the banter, in the KA drama, draw on lines of color. The stories tell: lies, partial truths, conjecture, wisdom, details, generalizations, and perceptions. The truth is that a someone died at the hands of another. Not everyone knows the truth except the teenager who drew the weapon. He did not speak under oath so lawyers do their interviews after the fact.

The KA supporters have brought in the race card. And, as a result brought in a court case involving a white, 18 year old teenaged adult to compare and contrast fairness. They may be comparing one type of apple to another. Two apples raised in different environments but eventually making deadly decisions. Bad decisions by said apples can spoil the whole lot.

The script in trials is often well rehearsed and the story boards are not original. 

Listen to the commentators. The setting of these two real life dramas are school scenes located in Texas. The scenarios involve fighting, death,  knives, challenges, victims, perpetrators, witnesses, trials, media, mothers, fathers, and self defense arguments. I see dead students, do you?

As you listen, compare the decisions of all the characters, then back track. "Rewind" to what the students (all of them) could have and should have done before knives were plunged into the hearts of another. Hindsight review may help someone tomorrow with yesterday's news as a backdrop. None of the past should be rewritten by anyone.

Although any angsty behavior or commentary will not bring the dead back to life, and no rewrite is possible for the two dead teenagers, the two in jail could write chapters that turn their current stories into a happier ending. Maybe appeals will help change their current housing arrangements but will it change their hearts that are still beating?

Hopefully, the adults will keep their commentary peaceful and the parents base their claims in reality. Lawyers are lawyers, they will as argue either side depending on who is signing the paycheck. (Ask a lawyer on that, they train to argue both sides.)

The summary of the CA case does explain school protocol. In my opinion, school safety protocol in an emergency was not followed in the KA case. Listen to the reporters following the CA case. Less angst by reporters in the CA case than from the KA case which was covered by many podcasters. 

https://youtu.be/cZnBgZrMD9A?is=Nu40VPQsgUjLIvUu

https://youtu.be/fUuSeIdvYdk?is=G1UY73gBIqaYt4Yk

https://youtu.be/zXWLayzVX-A?is=VS1ovwslW7gctqp8 

Belton High School and Frisco High School are on the list of failures and two mothers added to the  lists which they are now part of because of deadly actions by their sons. Two mothers because of actions against their sons.

Both teenagers found guilty.  No winneres. No one called for race wars in the CA case, although the victim was hispanic and the  convicted murderer is white. 

The KA parents and handlers went public. A gag order was put into place because of the pre-trial rhetoric. Fundraisers and money became a flashpoint for KA.

I had not heard of the CA case before the KA supporters brought it to attention.  Self defense? Unfair trial? Why compare? Some have odd ways of handling conflict. 

Some pondered how the CA case would impact the KA trial. I wonder how the CA case that happened in May 2022 did not have an impact sooner than a trial in June 2026.

https://youtu.be/u_a342QAjlU?is=m2HjLqF01E7yKwp-


https://youtu.be/nPN-h5azt_Y?is=7Z4mLplR9khiB5Ep

https://youtu.be/kHAVcGzofWc?is=RrKqLOv2-jxjmWhp

CA trial was in April 2025. KA used the knife on April 2. 2025.

Some murderers never have to face a jury, they get killed or committ suicide All dead victims can not tell their sides. School related deaths are always suspect to me even with videos.

Sentences, 10 years, 35 years. Knives kill. Juries discern and decide. Parents weep.

No one is advocating for knive laws although some are arguing the size of knife and right to carry one. 

Do the research on these cases. Draw your own conclusions. Hopefully, you are not blind to teenage angst.

Unalive means dead. 

Both convicted murders brought knives to school and used them to kill someone. There ought to be a law.

Both CA and KA have appeal in waiting.

Everyone has opinions.

Kids are dead and they died on school property.  Evidently, the Golden Rule is interpreted differently by the main characters. What would Columbo do? 

Marian R. Carlino

June 27, 2026

Thursday, June 25, 2026

Doctor My Ears have heard the fears

And the fast parade of tears...

What does a school in the Phillippines, a library in northern California and a workplace in Montreal have in common?

The news on Monday, June 22 tells. The news will also tell you that the attacks were all well planned.

A manifesto with footnotes, chat rooms, and research ( done by all the suspects.) The swat teams could only intervene. Rescue, recovery and splaining to do. Swat teams make mistakes.

Rinse. Repeat, Wring. 

Some will weep.

Some will blame the weapon.

Some will say it's a distraction. Some will research for good. Some will reseach for evil.

School: https://youtu.be/42CdQfz3MRY?is=wLsno51ScuzgWxUX

Library: https://youtu.be/nztJuGyH72I?is=r8eFkBK19cgm-Jci

Workplace: https://youtu.be/LPyB37Xes6E?is=T6ZXyGzvbBgw68kv

https://youtu.be/LPyB37Xes6E?is=mkmP6-5WmYMYHI63

I looked at the manifesto. It reads like a dissertation, with many footnotes.

Marian R. Carlino

June 25, 2026


Wednesday, June 24, 2026

Off with his head and an Antidote.

Today, if you are Catholic you celebrate St. John the Baptist. It is not a Sunday or designated Holy Day. But I went to Mass anyway. Part of the reason was that, I learned, that in Portugal, after a whole week of celebrating Saints, St.John the Baptist's Celebration has fireworks at midnight. "It's like our Fourth of July"! I was told.

"John the Baptist, the priest said, "like us, is a child of God." I learned forward. There were only about 22 people at Mass, including the priest who spoke with an Irish accent. I wish more had heard his homily.

The priest explained, "John was a miracle to his mother and father." He did not have an easy life even after leaping in his mother's womb. Mary and Elizabeth were cousins, and you know the rest of their stories. If not, read the Gospels.

Seven years ago, I witnessed two expectant mothers, cousins by marriage, as they both exclaimed that their babies were moving around a lot as they were talking! We were at a baby shower. The babies lept! They are cousins!

So the priest reminded all of us, with no one under the age of 60 present, that we are children of God. He also said how important prayer is. God listens as we pray for others. He hears their names.

I talked to the priest after Mass about the celebration in Portugal.

So pray, God is the antidote to evil. He hears that you are praying, even for your enemies.

And mothers, take some advice from the priest and Carol King. Our children need our prayers in this fallen world.

Carol King: So glad you are a child of mine.

https://youtu.be/sxLVvluMRY8?is=aEB2wQ9tdAoVUtEx 


Love,

Marian 

June 24, 2026

Copy Cats and other discussions. Another yesterday news

You do not have to speak the language to get some of this. I keep hearing America and the Phillippino juvenile justice system in the discussions.


https://youtu.be/CMm-dh1anUM?is=DPJsCrM3Vjo8FLDL


https://youtu.be/ZpRlWTQKHps?is=HKLyESGD_76lfJvC


This title may help explain. This mayor is saying it is a wake up call. Also puts aside the bullying hype. This mayor gets it! Calling on parents and teachers. In English.

https://youtu.be/2UqKAvZO0-g?is=WKV-F4CpO0nr_mZM


Time keeps on slipping, slipping, slipping into the future.

What did I know in the past?

Marian R. Carlino

June 24, 2026


Cats and dogs:: Courageous and informative

The editors made me cut a lot from my book and advised to be more narrative on the sworn taped testimony. I had to drop some of my experiencing post leaving the classroom. Too long? Not believable?

My book does relate a huge issue in my neighborhood in NJ. That did not involve a cat. 

There were two serious ones that did though.

I had a orange cat come visit from a neighbor. He rubbed up against my leg while I was in my driveway talking to a friend. I even said, what is it trying to tell me?  The next night, my husband woke me up. The neighbors, who owned the cat had a huge garage fire. It was used as a living area heated with a kerosene heater.  No one was hurt but living quarters had to be vacated for repairs. I wrote about that in a published poem.

Did the cat sense something was wrong with that heater? No one can convince me otherwise. The cat often sat on my front porch after that. I wish I could speak "cat"? I always asked what is going on today!

On another occasion, with yet another close friend at my house, the older neighbor, diagonal from my house, called to tell me that rental neighbors. who moved out, left a cat in the house (a different house and cat). My friend and I went to check. 

We could not see a cat by looking in windows so we entered the backyard. The backyard was a wreck and full of trash and other things. 

I went home and called the board of health.

The family, a father and two teenagers were friendly. They kept their heads low because the mother was in jail due to embezzling from her employer. The daughter was a cheerleader. The son was big, quiet and had a skinhead friend which was unsettling. 

As my friend and I went back outside to wait for the Board of Health to show up, a man was walking up to that house. It was an insurance adjuster with a key. The landlord called him because of theft and inside damage. We entered with him.We called the police. No cat, but the walls were telling.

It turned out that the police could tie some of the info to threats made against our local regional high school superintendent. Nazi slogans and threats on signs and the bike path. Lots of graffiti on the walls and on the bikepath. Paint spray cans in the yard.

The Current's police blotter listed some info after the discoveries. Did the parent move because of the son? My neighbor, right next store, could see the fensed in backyard but thought nothing of it.

Lots of damage and clues inside. Lots of clues outside.

One other cat made me think too. It was regarding the direct ssfety of one of my children. Glad the cat and I locked eyes.

Do you think animals are intuitive? I do.

The animals went to higher ground as the people at the ocean watched the waves in Thailand. When we least expect it, pay attention to the animals.

https://youtu.be/fH2MtMByP10?is=e3tK6IA10oNmyc2n


They use dogs to inspect for bombs. Why?  This student's video is from 2006. Who brought the dogs in?

https://youtu.be/gkqDPbna6Aw?is=D16M1TjRcRVf1eGU

Marian R. Carlino

June 24, 2026

A famous mom gone missing

I do not think the news could keep up yesterday or Monday. How about today? 

I know the Google thing and news feeds. I get plenty of other news too, but podcasters and MSM prefer to dissect the new that bleeds or soap operas which the KA trial has become.

The analysis of the Nancy Guthrie disappearrance and suspected murder is interesting. Some podcasters actually sat outside her house for weeks and weeks. Some moved on physically but still report. They are doing their work. Recently, the more offbeat ones have gotten arrested. Are they onto something? NG's house is in an off the busy path so to speak.  Nothing bad could happen there? Her community in Pima County is wide awake now.


The Interview Room which is like an investigative podcast has been diving deep. NG is famous because her daughter is Savannah Guthrie of NBC's Today Show.

SG belongs on a short list too, but the scene of the dissppearance is a home and she is pleading for her mom, an innocent victim.  February 1, 2026 is a day that can not ever be forgotten by SG and family.

Maybe NG needed a panic button. See related post on panic buttons.

Another reason this story has captured the hearts of many, especially TIR with Chris M. and company is because of the Sheriff. There is enough out there on the channels that I am not going into great detail. My blog posts are short on purpose. 

Connect dots as you go along. Pay attention to missteps in protecting a crime scene. Connecting any yet?

ITR has a professional woman journalist (Chris M's wife),  former police officers, former FBI, and an author/practicing psychologist/psyciattist as regulars. Guests are invited and all experts in their fields.

Discussion is adult with no rants. Nothing has been resolved so this is not Monday Morning Quarterbacking. 

I do not care for SG. I like neutral news people when it comes to subjects. There are not many in journalism today. But SG's mom is missing.

Ironically, she does not have a lot to say but when she does, her eyes cry. She does not need an eye doctor. Her eyes have seen the years and the slow parade of fears in other people's lives.

Now, evil has touched her home. Please pray for resolution and that the criminal(s) are found before they strike. 

Community violence impacts us all. Some occurs in homes; some in schools, some in churches, some in corporate workplaces. Some draw national attention for the location or victims.

Some evil only ends through prayer regardless of circumstances.

Do you pay attention when a dog barks in your neighborhood? Throwback to the OJ Simpson trial. His name has been in the news due to the KA conviction.  I always felt that barking dog should have been brought into the courthouse. Dogs are intuitive. So are cats. A dog barked in NG's neighborhood around the time of the crime.

I appreciate the independent podcasters. Even without credentials, they dig for info. They find puzzle pieces after the fact to try to solve a problem. Puzzle problem solvers!

Link for The Interview Room on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/live/J6cqPHxM1AE?is=adpjx-xrYdwxbAnK

See if you can help solve a problem, preferrable before the FBI is called in.

What makes a dog bark or a cat rub up against your leg?

It's 10 o'clock. Do you know where your mother is?

Marian R. Carlino

June 24, 2026

Tuesday, June 23, 2026

Frozen River

I am reading a book, setting is 1789, but of course it was written by a contempory of ours so I can not help reading it as though the time is today. A few muskets here, a few long dresses there, who can tell the difference? Women's lib plays a huge part of course. The heroine is a midwife. The subject matter is heavy with rape, vengeance, murder, cover ups and I am only 146 pages in. It is a mother' s story.

Mothers on a short list of school yard killers are in the news. Trying to find some English reports. No matter, English is a primary language in the Philippines

Reasons: bullying, on line gaming, online influence, guns, blaming America?  Unlocked access to the school and access to guns. Well planned. Is it part of the Columbine effect? Mrs. Kleibold must be so proud if that is the case or is she? 

One short list mother wants to sue the mother of the other short list. The lists grow. 

Links to listen. 

https://youtu.be/cn5BzTADG4I?is=odusXOTDcl2VXzfj

https://youtu.be/hHjwjpr-tE4?is=b_8fM-Iibg7NI-Eo 

https://www.youtube.com/live/A3WtgmqPTmo?is=vVa66xNkEK3c1d1m

https://youtu.be/AVDNevgwpPc?is=UqAHCdl_PxyFf7Lt

https://youtu.be/ZpRlWTQKHps?is=5i1ko6jHHMWYNb3I

https://youtu.be/nZJCWsu_msw?is=X7YTN4LhusF4djBX


Yesterday in the city of  Tacloban. Today the autopsies. Tomorrow who knows where the list will gather names. God reveals pieces of the puzzle. Try listening before tomorrow comes. The violence is a repeat offender whether it is 1789, 1998, 1999 or 2026. Some events are frozen in time and never completely thaw.

Sometimes, it is meant to be. Read my teacher's story. Lots of moms in it. No one made it to a short list under my watch.

Here's to you Mrs. Kleibold. Another added to the short lists  your son helped create.

Setting is a library.. last night.

https://thepostmillennial.com/breaking-teen-arrested-in-chico-library-shooting-inspired-by-columbine-massacre?utm_campaign=64466

Marian R. Carlino

June 23, 2026

Mum's the word and the short list of mother's and fathers

Mum refuses to pay son’s condo rent, he responds by driving car into Bangkok university campus pool - Yahoo News https://share.google/jl9xvkNp0eQHgdmjU 

You do not even have to read anymore than the title of the link to figure out this story. An angry person, mad at his mother, destroyed part of a university campus. Maybe she finally got fed up and wanted her son to grow up? Who is going to pay for the damage? 

But you may want to read on.

Lots of banter on the internet about people like this son. How do we raise our sons?

The list of schools and victims from school violence are extensive. The schools are infamous, the victims, even heroic ones, usually are not known unless they speak up. The victims such as AM's mom and dad are on a long list of parents of kids killed at school.

The mother and father of KA are on a shorter list. The parents of schoolyard killers are fewer because one kid can do a lot of damage and claim more victims, seen and unseen. It is an invited list too. Children send the invite.

In 1999, the two Columbine kids got a lot of attention. The Columbine Effect is real. The mother of Dylan Kleibold was given a forum. She wrote a book.  That grates on my nerves but I will include a link. I have absolutely no empathy for her. Not a fan of Oz. She is donating all profits. Too little, too late.

This link is not one year old.

https://youtu.be/ndhxbhe5PVs?is=pXnhQRVqLoUlG5rt

Since my blog is about connecting dots and seeing patterns, pay attention. At least mother Kleibold did not blame people of another color.  Her son killed his "brothers" and "sisters" in cold blood. Then took his own life.

KA literally had blood on his hands from killing AM, no matter the justification. KA ran. The video does not show a gang beating him to a pulp or pulling out a weapon in response. They called 911 and yelled to the roaming adults to get help.

What can we learn from those boys after their teamate was killed in cold blood in front of them? Victim responses are often telling of their character.

What can we learn from mother Kleibold?

Maybe nothing but talking it out is much better than calling for a race war.

It seems that not only the son, KA,  was listening to a vengeful voice. So are the parents.

I grew up in a hood in Plainfield, NJ. I post all sorts of voices. Here is a man's perspective. Many of the people I listen to are not white. Perception is everything I have been told. He has a word or two about mothers. It ain't pretty but we can learn from it.

https://youtu.be/AUqUTAnXFiA?is=WIKLu1qBs3VyE2Nt

How is that Thailand mother from the link above?

Next up, the shooting in the Philippines. Yes, it happens everywhere. More mothers added to lists. 

Marian R. Carlino

June 23, 2026






Saturday, June 20, 2026

The Medical Field, The Sam Manzie Eddie Werner Story, Two Families

I posted a comment on a YT video today because the lawyer, Nate, gave a great summary of the video of the KA attack and time leading up to it. Nate is a sane voice in the debate on many legal issues, with life and professional experience to back up his commentary.

I advised for people to look at the case of Sam Manzie and to focus on forgiveness. I know about forgiveness and how it works. It does not deny justice nor advise forgetting. It does not take the pain away, but it does take the edge off when people yell for vengeance. It allows for healing. Sometimes it leads to reconciliation.

It is a story with many lessons.

I decided to write here after I commented on Nate the Lawyer's channel. The story is mentioned in my book for a variety of reasons. This happened in 1997. Connect dots to my actions. I was a PTA member, Brownie Troop Leader,  teacher, and parent living about an hour away. My sister had lived in Jackson Township years earlier. What influence did it have on me? Why do I remember it still and thought it was important to include as a piece of the puzzle in my book? 

Why would I want Nate, the Lawyer to know? 

The case changed the laws, practices for fundraising and brought the topic regarding online predators to the nation.

Besides forgiveness, there is a justice issue and a civil complaint/lawsuit about the failure of the medical professionals to take action. All of which ties into my blog and motivation to teach outside a classtoom.

I do not reinvent the wheel in my posts. I do not go into research when deep dives have been done. I share information to connect dots for prevention.

Forgiveness is a great part of preventng future hurts.

Link to be copied and pasted into browser: This gives detailed information on the medical field issue.

RICK WHITAKER | Issue #09 - Herri https://share.google/SJyvWMlQewByrNvXO

Court case: copy and paste into browser.

STATE OF NEW JERSEY v. SAMUEL A. MANZIE, :: 2000 :: New Jersey Superior Court, Appellate Division - Published Opinions Decisions :: New Jersey Case Law :: New Jersey Law :: U.S. Law :: Justia https://share.google/1TbeNJe6YnOhKYO7N

Newspaper article ( There are many but this one is not behind a pay wall.)

What makes this story different from so many other stories are the parents. 

MIRACULOUS MOMENT OF FORGIVENESS | New York Post https://share.google/VUJe26QR88rWxr7mz

Justice is a process, as is forgiveness. I am tired of the hatred. 

If a video is more your style, there are many true crimes podcasters who can retell. The gory details are devilish for sure.

This is one from 2025. What about the judge’s decision not long before the murder?

https://youtu.be/3ukSgJUeCJk?is=ORH0fo6V0feqYZ-y


Live, Learn, Love, even when it is hard. We are called to love, not like. These parents decided to love which takes more courage than to hate.

Parole possibility in 2027. Forgiveness does not mean a murderer should be set free. Parents of Manzie may still be in denial.

Marian R. Carlino

June 20, 2026

When you walk through a storm.

I wrote my book because I knew, even as I walked out of the school on April 22,1998 that I had a piece of a puzzle. I also knew I had to trust in God. I also knew the storm of controversy had not ended.

Today I was texting with a friend about storms in our lives. We all have them. Some are more difficult than others. Some chose death. Some chose revenge. Some chose prayer. Some chose life. Some seek legal justice. 

We are always given a choice.

Stopping School Violence: One Teacher’s Silent Scream is my story about  my choices.

When stormy weather hits, hold your head up high and look up! Fold your hands and kneel in prayer, not in protest. Do not surrender to the powers of evil. Surrender to God.

God sees the bigger picture! He uses all sorts to tell His story!  As they say, Walk on with hope in your heart and you will never walk alone. He sends signs of help.

Rainbows after a storm, show promise! God does not lie nor will he be mocked.

Trust that no matter how messy life gets, there is a God guided choice. He will never put you to shame. I am proof of that!

Love, 

Marian

June 30, 2026

The Log

I really think Google can read our thoughts or the algorithm picked up on a podcaster's prayer.

The Bible Scripture passage came to my mind this morning about taking the log out of our own eyes before removing the splinter from someone else's eye. 

It entered my thoughts in 1998 on school violence prevention and then again this morning after listening to a podcaster who opens with prayer. I like her openings. She is a recent find due to the AK trial. She was in the courtroom during the trial. No link is here for her, but I bet I will share one in the future.

These two links are about a death that happened in 2019. One victim. Two teenagers in jail. The weapon was not a gun or knife. The scene was an Ohio park. School event.

Connect dots to the AK situations. Do you see the patterns, beside dead people? 

Listen to the news report, then listen to the podcasters commentary. I know nothing of these podcasters. They use expletives but we are all adults. They do not race bait. It is common sense commentary.

Mothers reactions: Compare to the mother of AK. Same? Denial? Unbelief? Anger stage of grief?

My book explains how the mother reacted to my concerns in prevention. We can all be in denial about our own kids. That could be a deadly choice.

These kids took a plea deal which is what many thought AK should have been guided to do. This 2020 plea deal did not result in calls for vengeance on anyone else. Unfortunately, the same can not be said of the reactions to the outcome of the AK trial.

News report: I do remember this case. Not a school setting, but teenagers. Names are given and ages 17. 

Ohio teens get 3 years for rolling log off cliff ‘to be funny,’ killing photographer taking portraits below – KIRO 7 News Seattle https://share.google/a0ZX1VBFATavlWeCN

The podcasters: Interview of the killers. No faces blotted out. The commentary is important.

Per the time on this post, it says 4 days ago but the events are from 2019 to 2020. Masks in some segments for Covid. (That to me shows a problem.)

https://youtu.be/k_xTi1J5oeM?is=VFFmLhoHvb3CBeZ8

I hope this helps people understand. Prevention is worth a pound of cure. Any calls for banning logs?

Marian R. Carlino

June 20, 2026

Friday, June 19, 2026

Frisco, Texas ISD from a father's point of view. Fathers need to be Courageous.

 https://youtu.be/e65sCt4K5t0?is=8nNXdAVtJVizl-IJ

Some people call podcaster's "grifters". This podcaster in the link above has seen his share of negativity. There is stiff competition in the world of arm chair commentators. I find his commentary no better or worse than others. In fact, regardless of color or race, the coverage of the trial of AK has been similar, unless the race baiting is a thing. 

So, I listen to many independent podcasters and many who have strings attached to them. This particular segment caught my interest because of AM's father discussing the school district of Frisco, Texas. He is not ranting in this, but one may understand why the rants started after the gag order ended and trial was over.

If you read my blog or read my book, you will understand why this part of the father's interview resonated with me.

He is a father of a dead child. The deadly attack happened in a school setting. He has some victim insight.

If you do not see a pattern when children die at  schools, then get out from under the rock.

Patterns are what we need to see in order to connect dots. This link below, of a movie, will connect dots no matter which father you root for in this case. I mentioned the movie in my book in the parenting chapter.

Still timely after all these years. Have tissues in hand, then commit to real parenting before it is too late.

Be: Courageous. Share the movie.

*****https://youtu.be/yKB66_kSeIU?is=IjwOdEizW026Npv_*****

https://youtu.be/QTR_rOQEPio?is=ZfgJR1-92tNYzJDI

My dad was courageous! He died in 1985. 

Happy Father's Day.

Love, 

Marian

June 19, 2026


Just a reminder, It is a crime.

Staff safety: It is a crime to assault people, unless you are unborn.

That being said, since clear thinking adults would not kill an unborn child, there are definitions of mitigating circumstsnces when assaulting other humans ( and animals under different laws. Clear thinkers may actually get a piece of the puzzle to stop crime.

PA section of law!

Section 2702.0 - Title 18 - Reading Mode https://share.google/nnL9h9nfafmDlRRTZ

Marian R. Carlino

June 19, 2026

Thursday, June 18, 2026

The Tool is not the Enemy; Knives Out and Pencils?

Which came first, the chicken or the egg? It is a long standing debate. Can't have a human without the egg and sperm. What came first? That is up for many a heated discussion. 

In a violent society, and this world is a violent one, some like to blame the tool. They ignore the circumstances, motivation and legal authority of the person using it. Well, that is, if the tool is a gun. I am not hearing any national outcry to ban knives nationally, even from the emotional victims of AK or the students from Franklin Regional High School. 

Media Mention: Easy to conceal, harder to detect: Knives more prevalent than guns in schools | Institute for Firearm Injury Prevention https://share.google/f27Z1ru1eJYLA9LkE link may have to be copied.

Weapons are in society, but are not legally allowed in some settings (SCHOOLS) for good reasons. If we were a Miss Manners world or paid attention to the 10 Commandments, maybe we wouldn't need millions of laws and policies that explain decent behavior. Ignorance of the ones that apply to our circumstsnces is not a legal defense. It is an excuse.

Try this information from Pennsylvania on for size.  Copy link into browser if necessary.

Section 2702.0 - Title 18 - Reading Mode https://share.google/e4mjaykvfLRJuK58R

Some think the weapon came first and then the  hatred.  I know the hatred came first. But those who want gun ownership rights taken away do not agree. They blame the weapon. They have many debates.

Do they also blame the table when a baby stumbles? Do they blame the sidewalk when they trip? I know tennis players blame the racket. It's tennis season, watch those expensive behaviors when a player misses a ball. The action is not at all Miss Manners behavior even in high society venues. 

Many times in my post and book I have not blamed the weapon because, even if it is a knife, it is pointless. The tool is an inanimate object, a human makes the tool a weapon. How did the term "poison pen" come about? I will have to check on that. Another writer talked about pens today. 

This short report may give you a throw back to What I learned in Kindegarten. Listen carefully to the pencil! 

https://youtu.be/JJ1rfDPK7ZQ?is=p5-DN8Gug9V7Txq0

Ban the Boat! I have personal reasons why I could get on that bad wagon. I do not hear those cries coming out of a recent trial. Accidents, intentional hits, not knowing how to drive one, being under the influence, the boat does not think on its own ( well, not yet). Humans have the control.

Now, back to common tools used in school attacks.  Are there copy cat crimes with knives? Are schools any more open to give information when a knife is the tool used as a weapon? AK trial would point to "NO".

Here are a few recent examples:

2 teachers injured in school hallway stabbing at Roye-Williams Elementary in Havre de Grace | WBAL Baltimore News https://share.google/Rx4IPIrEGJXv7hU7z 

A few years ago: 2024 Epic failure? IDEA play a part. Read carefully.

Union leader says ‘epic’ failure led to boy stabbing teachers – NBC10 Philadelphia https://share.google/7eGEF8x7JH7XobDls ( copy link into browser) 

Knife Incidents, School Children Knives, School Knife Crimes https://share.google/2Q6VkZ3owBK2SXhF5 ( copy link into browser if necessary.

Are we tired of this yet? I got tired of the violent behavior impacting almost every aspect of my students' school day. It was not a knife, but what was in the bookbag?

Marian R. Carlino

June 18, 2026



Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Public school, public knowledge; Teacher and Principal did their jobs

I saw these videos in my feed today. Google knows before we do. It is because of my history of searches. Oh really!?

I used to get upset at pulled fire drills. Dust in the detectors was always the BS at my children's high school. It is a crime to pull a fire alarm or to shout "Fire" when there is none.

Connecting dots with these two videos.

So it is ok to publish videos. Public knowledge. In the first linked YT video, the student is 18.  No FERPA needed. Read the comments. 

The teacher and this principal did their jobs.  Do you think at the school in Newport News the VP, E Parker did her job. (See other posts and why I do not.) 

Felony to have a gun on school grounds. Bullying used as an excuse. 

Listen to the end. Typical parental response.

https://youtu.be/u2ze1tWynJE?is=XJ6BdCeLkpe89mOZ

In this next video, a student faked a hostage situation; police called to school;  hard lockdown.  Public school, public knowledge. This parent gets it at this point. Explusion on the table. Parent present for an underage student. Still on video and released to the public. Faces blanked out.

https://youtu.be/F9awg3xd3_Y?is=zbyGHQbL3LtLtBb9

Follow up to previous posts on AK.

Why did a high school in Frisco, Texas limit access to the video of the stabbing scene? Why did a Judge place a gag order? Why did another  Judge limit access to the court?  Was it because of improper protocol at the track meet? History of violence of the student with the knife? What high school had the video? They could have blanked out the faces too. The handling of the crime makes people question and they should. 

The defendent admitted his crime. Nobody on the jury bought the defense argument. The video and trial should have been public. More questions would have been answered.

Do you see a pattern with the bullying reason used for taking vengeance. It has become just BS. Luckily, the jury in the AK did not buy it.

School settings are public. The ADA speaker at ACCC  ( a community college) circa 2011 advised us in a mandatory meeting that is why teachers can be recorded. No right to privacy. But that moronic ADA representative was adamant that teachers could not know reasons why students needed accomodations. FERPA and 504 Plans are part of the problem when interpreted incorrectly. I wonder if she had to ever testify at a murder trial.

Do your research. Public education is paid for with your tax dollars. 

After watching the first video, if interested, go back to the posts on Newport News trial or watch part of the testimony in the civil case as well as Day 2 of the criminal case. Do you think the Judge in the criminal case got it wrong?

ASK..Asking Saves Kids. It could be your kid. No one is immune. 

Marian R. Carlino

June 17, 2026

Tuesday, June 16, 2026

Location. Location. Location.

Frisco is now added to the list of internationally known as scene of a violent death of a student. 

It could not happen here. This is (name of city), you do not have to lock your doors. No one carries a (weapon), this is (name of city).

I get it. I feel safe where I am, most of the time. But no place is immune. Even Dorothy knew that. She delt with a cranky neighbor who gave her nightmares. 

Did the victim feel immune in his community?

Some videos that would indicate Frisco was not immune. (If trouble opening links, copy and paste into browser.)

https://youtu.be/P2xoSdZrdX8?is=PjHKZYBQkWAvu_ew

https://youtu.be/s8avwFPxZ-M?is=kg0gcwN-Y9mw0YiH

https://youtu.be/v4wLNMNbfI4?is=yrO5G8jUYWcKgp6i

The reporter quotes a witness about just that or is this fabricatiion?

Texas teen who fatally stabbed track athlete at school meet found guilty and sentenced to prison - The Philadelphia Sunday Sun https://share.google/sywVhpzWjtaubP083

Schools, in the best of real estate locations, are subject to human behavior. My school in 1998 certainly was. It still is a "white picket fence" community, but not immune. 

Did you read my IDEA posts? There is a reference to an upscale neighborhood crime near a high school in the neighboring town to my former school district. Six degrees (or less) of separation is real.

Recently,  I commented on a YT post about the KA case. One person told me to read the transcripts of the trial of KA and know the law. I am not sure what side of the fence the person fell on. The law is pretty clear about weapons and schools.

My point that the location of the death was at a school event is important. And just because someone is in prison does not mean that person is lost to family. Of course, the integrity of the family would decide that. 

Only a few select reporters and the jury were able to listen in the court. A judge put a gag order on the whole case not long after the attack in April 2025 and would not allow cameras in the courthouse during the trial. This was not a federal trial.  Why?

The jury listened and determined a guilty of murder charge. The rest of us are only commenters and have no authority in that decision. The reporters in the courtroom did not just report. They commented. 

Lawyers are making a killing on pontificating outside of the courtroom. I did not see any of the YT practicing lawyers https://youtu.be/Bg9PIPPBpH0?is=sH3vo_K2jLRark57run to defend the now convicted murderer last year. Are they running to do the appeal?

I do not write without doing some background research or paying attention to the discussions. I have been paying attention since the stabbing happened. (See other posts about knives or my book.)

The outcome of this trial could unjustly have a national impact with threatened violence. Influencers are not helping. Some are gaining national notoriety.

The school board that employed me in 1998 assumed I did not know the law on school violence in NJ. I did. I learned even more when seeking information for a legal battle. The integrity of that board was non existent. The integrity of some of the YT podcasters is questionable.

This deadly stabbing that took place at a school event was in a town in Texas. The town now knows they are not immune. 

These links are about the law. 

Knives do not usually raise as much ire as this case has raised. Had it been a gun, well, that would be a horse of a different color, right Dorothy?

Knives on high school property or at an event are illegal. Now we know why?

Texas law links: (search using link description)

Texas Penal Code - PENAL § 46.03 | FindLaw https://share.google/gbc4MIYa4SktIyjzM

School Safety Law Toolkit | Texas School Safety Center https://share.google/5sgrU94Nbu6qx5mEx

I think this link below is very interesting. Long before the trial, the school setting was of interest to me. It does not appear an emergency response protocol was put in action. Everyone at that track meet were witnesses, just by being there. Now some of them are most likely silent victims. Was the location put on lockdown? The defendant ran. I think all of us are asking, where were the adults? They were certainly found after the stabbing.

Advisory On School Safety For Texas Students | Office of the Attorney General https://share.google/4rBlAdVj1dtDKOoqh (Search using description)

Florida student in the state of Florida. Just one other example of a student arrested, age of 14 with a knife.

LCSO: 14-year-old Rickards High student arrested for possessing utility knife on campus https://share.google/R5kfFGBwupYweNdDe

To those who want to make it a race issue, that is too bad. Nothing gets solved when we do not judge by the content of one's character.

Read my post on Franklin Regional High School and the damage that a kitchen knife did in the hands of an angry student.

Why is one trial of one death getting so much attention?  

And to the commenter, "we are not in Kansas anymore" or BC- Before Columbine.  It is not just a gun in the wrong hands that can kill.

Is your location immune?

A pyschologist's take:

https://youtu.be/AroAuaCSEGg?is=2S_jlbthzN8wxqnq

Updated 6/17/2026: Additional link.

I listen to this podcaster on a regular basis. Found him in January 2026. He posted this link a year ago about the stabbing in Frisco. Evidently, Mrmorial High School was not immune. People started following this stabbing very early on. 

https://youtu.be/Bg9PIPPBpH0?is=sH3vo_K2jLRark57run

Marian R. Carlino

June 16, 2026


Monday, June 15, 2026

Do No Harm

There are a few updated comments on June 20, 2026. Same topic.

When I first labeled this post, I sat at a Mass and leaned forward. I do get inspired by my attendance. I was going to post about medical staff and abortion. Hence, do no harm.

I changed the trajectory of this post from what the medical professional can and should do, to the topic in this post.

Workplace violence and school violence connecting dots. I used to think I was thankful that I did not live under the Roman Empire, but then I grew up.

My eyes were opened as a young person. My night time prayer, unsupervised by an adult, but learned by example, included a litany of protection for people, places and things.

I guess those trips to the basement of my elementary school, which were marked by yellow and black rectangles with triangles, taught me there was a world of people who planned evil. 

I had limited control especially of earthquakes  volcanoes, hurricanes and bombs. But earthquakes, volcanoes and hurricanes are not man made, right? God, I was taught, is all seeing. He has control of nature but not where people choose to live or how they follow through with His basic rules on life.

So, I had to reconcile, free will, with God's will. That is not easy, but praying and listening helps.

Are you still here? Let me connect those dots to this post and a shout out to previous ones on both workplace violence and school violence.

When someone wants revenge, sometimes they are not secretive about it. Sometimes they act. Try taking a look at my recent posts on workplace violence. Remember, your community is your workplace.

Updates: June 20, 2026: A hospital in Wilmington, Delaware had a shooting this week. Suspect is a former employee, aged 23, Manhunt ensued into another community in Philadelphia. Community and workplace setting all rolled into one.)

The first video is not too far off from how some see the KA vs AM school violence episode. A CEO was the victim in this one. He was killed in cold blood because of his work. 

June 20, 2026: Many are cheering on the alleged murderer. Evidently, an insanity defense is off the table. He was appended in another community too from where the murder took place.)

The second video has a bit of a cleansing effect, at least it could have, if people take what is discussed as good advice.

Do an analysis of the videos. Keep in mind, Do No Harm. 

Santa is watching, some call his role parenting or God.

I use all sorts of voices in my links. I found the first link when I was listening to the second link. I think the different points of view are on the same page, and not just for this post. 

People with good will want to understand, not seek vengeance.

https://www.prageru.com/videos/is-it-okay-to-mrder-ceos  (June 20, 2026 This video may have been taken down. The voices interviewed did not hold back about speaking vengeance.  Maybe a legal issue now for them.)

https://www.youtube.com/live/57UbITkMM6s?is=Ue4ZgKRYmtXGLUtP

Marian R. Carlino

June 15, 2026


It's 10 o'clock

Do you know where your children are?

When is bed time too late?

The news release yesterday out of Pittsburgh advised that a 17 year old is dead. The person of interest is 15 years old. The weapon was a gun. The shooting happened well past bedtime in a household with rules and in a city with a curfew of sorts. 

Where these kids students in any of the high schools in the Pittsburgh area? 

In Texas, a mother is grieving ( some say grifting) because her son is now in prison. He stabbed a high school student to death in broad daylight at a track meet. He will be in his cell, I bet, sleeping at 10:00 pm. This mother will know where her child is now. Did she know where he was before and what he packed in his book bag on any given day? Information on this man, is that, he had trouble before. Mom wanted freedom for her son.  The jury gave him 35 years of routine and curfew. It will be a different vibe in this gated community compared to the one he lived in while a high school student. 

Here is another young man's story.  Listen to the link. This criminal act was as an adult but his priors as a juvenile are extensive. Not sure what high school this one attended.

The judge's take is true. Why do people plead for less time? It seems this criminal was never given time out. I wonder if his parents knew or cared where he was at 10:00 pm. Now they will know, but will they care?

https://youtu.be/elMylc1g9vk?is=G2jX2gJR_S3vxMz0

One question after you listen to the lawyer's bs and then to the judge. The judge starts off with chastisement, then he seems to ease up. Will he give in after a few months or is he advising hopium? Replacement parents, lawyers, judges and prison staff give in too. I worked with at risk youth. It is not easy to try to encourage adult youth when their parents didn't know or care about their well being at 10:00 pm. 

When the bars are set low for a child, iron bars can become a norm.

In what kind of gated community do you want your children to live? Gated communities, of any sort, identifies a criminal culture. 

Life is about choices. All of these criminals could have made other choices. Would a 10:00 pm enforced bedtime have helped?

I like 10:00 for bedtime, even now. 

Marian R. Carlino

June 15, 2026





Saturday, June 13, 2026

Doctor My Eyes

https://youtu.be/GJ4M59JO0qg?is=d7KBg8oFW1d3DC7g 

Sometimes a song pops into my head. I was 17 when this song hit the charts.

Listen to the lyrics. There are some thoughts on why Jackson Brown wrote them. One is a medical reason.

Ponder on the lyrics. We all see things we can not unsee.

I am just a blogger with some life experience that has made me cry. 

Is Jackson asking a doctor? Human doctors fail. They can be well meaning or corrupt. See previous posts. 

The pharmaceutical industry is suspect., literally, these days. Did Jackson need eye drops?

I took a fetal position "once or twice" in my life and prayed.  I did not ask a doctor to order anything.

I asked the Master Healer for assistance and guidance. I received tangible help. Sometimes I had to wait. Sometimes, the answer made me cry. Sometmes the answer made me step out of comfort zone? (Read my book for more detail.)

Jesus is the Master Healer. Think Lazarus. (Read about him. It was a stinky story and some complaining.)

Parents, now infamous, sought justice in a  courthouse in Texas. One now wants Mercy. I hope she prays, and not on social media.

One parent knows the future of her dead child. The other mother fears for her living child.

Pray for all parents, especially those in most need of His Mercy.

Love,

Marian

June 13, 2026

Weeping

A principal wept when a judge dismissed charges, after a jury heard testimony. See other posts.

A mother weeps ( present) for her 19 year old son after he was convicted of murder. It is surmised that her son had a history of behavioral issues before the April morning in 2025.  He confessed to stabbing a young man in the heart. His case lost on self defense. The convicted 19 year old was 17 years old when he brought a weapon to a school event. 

How old was he when he first experienced problems, six?

Victim blaming is a thing these days,no different in this scenario. 

It was a school setting. The dead victim was a student also.

Do you know of this case?

A rock is your roof? 

Sand is in your ears?

None of this matters to you? 

Well, the supporters of the murderer have promised to spread more violence. Their hatred is based on the color of your skin.

I grew up in long, hot summers  in the 60's and experienced the violence in 2020 during the Summer of Love. Street justice will destroy more lives.

The court case is over. Justice was served.

Pay attention before a trial needs to judge right from wrong. 

Life, death, justice, mercy are why Jesus wept.

I know two mothers who have wept for their sons who committed crimes as adults, long after high school. The patterns of attacks and response are similar. One was executed on death row in NJ. The other one, if still alive, is on death row in Pa. Both are white. 

Race became a red herring in this internationally recognized case. Do not take the bait. Evil only wants more victims.

Hatred is a terrible waste of life.

I still have questions about this case but time will reveal more. Jesus is all about Justice. Some parents only want Mercy.  

Marian R. Carlino

June 13, 2026

Thursday, June 11, 2026

FERPA! FERPA! FERPA!

We root for our favorite sports teams. We get to know the names on the roster. But what do we really know? Some of their lives are none of our business. Other parts of the personalities, that become public, are out there for scutinizing. 

The media, professional and amateur, seek out information for the endless commentary shows to which we are all drawn.  Human nature has common denominators! Dissecting someone's life has always been with us. Who is the most famous person in history? He only had a public life for three years.

When one of my life decisions became public, I decided to remain public. No doors to hide behind. Kudos to the parents in my former school district to ask questions at a public board meeting! Most did not believe what was told at an invitation only, private meeting. I addressed their concerns at a public microphone, editorials and my book.

I use my experience to lay the foundation of many of my posts. Random reasons to read may confuse some who do not know anything about me.

There is a method to my "madness", righteous anger being one motivating factor and education. 

So why the title of this blog?

Unless, a rock is your roof, or you live in the sand, the media of all types and persuations are covering the recent trial in Texas of a defendent found guilty of murder, by a jury.  The decision is controversial, but legally based on Texas law.

The controversary, in my opionion, is contrived.

In a trial, witnesses get called. Evidently, FERPA. (see previous posts) came into play in order to call student witnesses. 

To educators and parents, I am not sure why FERPA, in this case, came into play. School is a public setting. Behavior on public property is public. School settings have special rules for access, but not a right to personal privacy.  Why didn't the police get witness names at the time of the stabbing? Why wasn't the setting locked down? The suspect ran. Why didn't the response team treat the setting, the whole field, as a crime scene? Did they? Gag orders strangle the truth.

If you question the fact that school property is a  public setting just think about how many students post videos on line of school classrooms, legally.

Why was FERPA, per the link below, needed to call witnesses?

I have questions that may never be answered.

It is a school setting once again that has made national news for a murder. FERPA does not protect public behavior. The letter sent to the parents in Frisco, Texas is listed in this link. It involves FERPA.

I am thankful for the media who ask questions. That gag order should have us all question, why. And no cameras, in this courtroom, for this murder trial, protected whom?

Frisco ISD subpoenaed for student names, records in connection to Karmelo Anthony case - CBS Texas https://share.google/MSohqPNDwtqybLcWF

I will be posting links to pundits and news reporters at some point related to this trial.

The defendent is appealing. I hope there are civil cases with no NDA because some are, and have been, race baiting for publicity.

Per other posts, I am still working on posts related to the medical field's obligation to report.

Stay tuned.

Marian R. Carlino

June 11, 2026


Tuesday, June 9, 2026

Lawsuit against hospital system 3 years after deaths

See post and links in blog post from June 2. Legal Responsibility of Medical Profession. Codified.

People don't sue in these cases of school shootings for money, they sue to get answers. It can take years.

https://youtu.be/PUIp36aAnTQ?si=HBdLMIsJGZcn_uCm

https://youtu.be/qra3rAsk6ts?si=EhQ844yb9uDcRTTE

The lawsuit

Petition.pdf https://share.google/WUSiDcmcnXXB0lD8A

The public may not get answers when settlements are reached. This  video article below is with the settlement reached with the school district.

SLPS makes settlement offer to mother of student killed in CVPA shooting | FOX 2 https://share.google/Q7idbh4ehBojr1gsm

Northfield is fortunate. They could  have easily faced lawsuits, and not from the parents of the violent child.

What were they thinking? 

Idle threats

It can not happen here.

HIPPA

IDEA

Ignorance? 

Indifference

Fear

We can not bring dead people back. And, sometimes these cases just stink of incompetence.

Marian R. Carlino

June 9, 2026



It was the best of schools. It was the worst of schools. Possible saint. Columbine Effect

https://youtu.be/MzdmOSk1Vdc?si=rE1M6MVOYBXTqVU

STEM School Highlands Ranch Near Littleton, Colorado. 2019

7 years, and yet, some administrstors still ignore the actual warnings.

Back to reality.

If Hallmark ever does a movie on school shootings, they will have "jumped the shark".

I will always support public and private education, but not all the people who work in it. 

Some interesting points made in this video. 

Prayer vigils turned into a political rally on gun control. Hmm. Where have I personally had a similar experience?

Possible sainthood for the young man who charged the shooter. Catholic Church community rallied for the victim when politicians made it about gun control.

Detailed Planning; 

Family trauma and targets.

Transgender issues. Anger, revenge, plotting to kill specific students

Drugs, illicit and prescribed.

Bullying..not an excuse to seek revenge. There are legal routes to follow. So over that excuse.

Criminal trials because the attackers did not die.

Ignored warning signs and abrupt resignation of chief administrator.

Botched security and a promotion.

Dead victim's family still fighting for documentation.

I remember this shooting because of the young man who helped minimize the body count. 

Pray for this young man's legacy.

https://youtu.be/a44OBvhN5ac?si=hpeDTZ5uTR1PUhYN

Would you lay down your life for a friend as the young man did?

Shannon Wright did in 1998. I dedicated my book in her memory. 

Marian R. Carlino

June 9, 2026

Monday, June 8, 2026

A Dose of Hallmark

If you have read or listened to any of the links, in my posts, you may need a dose of Hallmark.

I am a serious person. My experiences in 1998 and 2004-2005, made me even more serious. I needed people around me who lightened the load. I found some! I am a woman of faith. My book details how I resolve conflict. Sometimes I write.  Always, I pray.

I do not like artificial courage, so I never needed to take anything.  With the type of work I do, for the last 10 years, I have learned much. I evidently also knew intuitively and by example. My parents, also serious, never relied on chemicals to lift or depress.

If you read my posts on the lies of Covid, connect some dots. Ignorance is not bliss. Blank pages of ingredients and side effects, please, get real. Please! We know some in the medical field quack.

The serious side of me takes breaks. School violence has not been an easy topic to tackle even in (fact based) opinion pieces and book. My publisher said writing my book should make me cry. It did. And I had written much of it years before publication.

These resesrches who dive into the gory and devil filled details of school violence, hopefully, are not reading Stephen King or watching every Scream movie as entertainment.

I take time away from news based reality. Before 2005, I could watch the news, all four channels! Crime dramas, "who dun its",  espionage and some movies, like the Godfather, I enjoyed. I even watched Carrie and thought the story line was good until it wasn't. If you have not seen that horror movie, just substitute fire in a school instead of guns. 

My previous blogs explain soap operas. When my life took on some soap opera worthy story lines, I did not need to watch them for entertainment.

My favorite show for a very long time was Scarecrow and Mrs. King, a fine mix of espionage and love story. Chemistry, the actors had chemistry. Scarecrow was very handsome. The team of two helped keep America safe. Watch reruns. Art imitates life and many story lines play out in media news today. Hmm? Conflicts were resolved but violence was often a solution.

I found the Nanny, with Fran and her handsome hunk. I wrote a post on The Nanny. If I could be anyone else, it would be Fran, the character! She wasn't as oppressed or irritating as Lucy. She was smart, daring and well loved!  Her antics and "splaining" still make me laugh aloud! The actress/producer has led a serious life. I would choose another costume designer, but I was raised in NJ, not Brooklyn.  

In the last week, I have watched 27 Dresses. I  can watch it with kids in the room. Best thing about it, even shortened on YouTube, I can watch it again and again. 

Now for Hallmark. Life is about conflict and  resolution. Hallmark movies deal with serious. But the difference is, conflict is resolved peacefully! 

Enjoy a Hallmark movie today! You can find them on many streaming channels and uploaded on YouTube. Unlike the journal writers who become infamous, the Hallmark writers care about entertaining without death as the main goal. 

The campier movies are hysterical. The Haul Out the Holly and Haul Out the Halloween are light! I know, but you have to watch to believe in life, right?


Live, Love, Laugh ( in that order). Sometimes you need a break from the screaming. None of this is medical advise! 

I do believe God has a sense of humor, along with the utimate sense of Justice and Mercy!

Added note: I attended Mass after I set this to publish. The Gospel though serious is about life and joy. The priest in his homily advised "be happy, we are blessed". I can relate to the Gospel and the homily.

Pray. You are not alone. Laugh, it's ok,  even when the world mocks.

Hallmark has been a staple of society bringing good news for decades. The Gospel has been bringing Good News for thousands of years.

Love. 

Marian R. Carlino

June 8, 2026